"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Success and Happiness - An Inspirational Message

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Seek higher expectations, reach out and set new goals for yourself.

Look for Inspiration given to us by others who aspire to greater things.

Do not be afraid to make changes in your life.

Do not be satisfied with the way things are, most of us are resistant to change; seek to improve your position by seeking new ways.
Take the initiative and look for ways to go beyond the present circumstances whatever they may be.

Do not be discouraged, there is after all, a good side to each situation.

Through persistence, learn from setbacks and win your way to success by turning defeat into victory.

Remember courage and enthusiasm will ensure success if you refuse to be negative, by blaming luck, other people and circumstances.

If you want to reach for the top it is up to you. Set goals; work towards success in all you do and you will be surprised how success and happiness will be the result.

Have faith, believe in yourself and aspire to achieve success through hard work, honesty and kindness. Look not for the bad in others, seek only for the good in everyone.

That in all things, one must visualize conditions and situations as you
would like them to be, after all, in the end it is your ATTITUDE which makes the difference between success and failure.

Your attitude towards disappointments, discouragements, handicaps and setbacks make you either successful or a failure.

So, make sure you change your attitude and reach out only for success.

Aim high, be persistent and do not allow negative thoughts to deviate you from obtaining a better life, for those you love, your family, your friends, work colleagues and also for yourself.

Always think of improving and doing things better. Increase the quality and quantity of your output, so as a result your attitude is one of thinking big and in so doing, finding the secret to overcoming every obstacle.

This also applies to love and romance too, look for the best and richest qualities in your loved one, and do not destroy affection by thinking the other is unfair, and I will get even.

Rather, do not be petty and look for little things or small excuses to disappoint someone, but concentrate on their big qualities and do special things often, for the one you love, which will draw you closer and share happiness, laughter and a successful relationship... together.

To your dating success.

Feelgood.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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great post my brother!!! this is just what i needed. :)
 

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From inside "Think and Grow Rich":

Happiness is found in DOING, not merely possessing.
 

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Thanks guys for the kind words...

Took me a while to get to the place where I am today but, once you get there, there's nothing but "choice" to drive you.

Once you realize that there's nothing in this World you cannot be, have or do, then you're operating from a place of pure love, and people resonate to "your song"...people flock to you, because your essence is so much brighter...

Welcome aboard...


To your dating success...

Feelgood.
 

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Feel good good post. I disagree with the `do not be satisfied with the way things are`. You should be SATISFIED, and GRATEFUL of all the things you already have, but be willing to moving on to make things better.
Gratitude is a powerful tool.

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Do not be satisfied with the way things are.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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