"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Success and Happiness - An Inspirational Message

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Seek higher expectations, reach out and set new goals for yourself.

Look for Inspiration given to us by others who aspire to greater things.

Do not be afraid to make changes in your life.

Do not be satisfied with the way things are, most of us are resistant to change; seek to improve your position by seeking new ways.
Take the initiative and look for ways to go beyond the present circumstances whatever they may be.

Do not be discouraged, there is after all, a good side to each situation.

Through persistence, learn from setbacks and win your way to success by turning defeat into victory.

Remember courage and enthusiasm will ensure success if you refuse to be negative, by blaming luck, other people and circumstances.

If you want to reach for the top it is up to you. Set goals; work towards success in all you do and you will be surprised how success and happiness will be the result.

Have faith, believe in yourself and aspire to achieve success through hard work, honesty and kindness. Look not for the bad in others, seek only for the good in everyone.

That in all things, one must visualize conditions and situations as you
would like them to be, after all, in the end it is your ATTITUDE which makes the difference between success and failure.

Your attitude towards disappointments, discouragements, handicaps and setbacks make you either successful or a failure.

So, make sure you change your attitude and reach out only for success.

Aim high, be persistent and do not allow negative thoughts to deviate you from obtaining a better life, for those you love, your family, your friends, work colleagues and also for yourself.

Always think of improving and doing things better. Increase the quality and quantity of your output, so as a result your attitude is one of thinking big and in so doing, finding the secret to overcoming every obstacle.

This also applies to love and romance too, look for the best and richest qualities in your loved one, and do not destroy affection by thinking the other is unfair, and I will get even.

Rather, do not be petty and look for little things or small excuses to disappoint someone, but concentrate on their big qualities and do special things often, for the one you love, which will draw you closer and share happiness, laughter and a successful relationship... together.

To your dating success.

Feelgood.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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great post my brother!!! this is just what i needed. :)
 

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From inside "Think and Grow Rich":

Happiness is found in DOING, not merely possessing.
 

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Thanks guys for the kind words...

Took me a while to get to the place where I am today but, once you get there, there's nothing but "choice" to drive you.

Once you realize that there's nothing in this World you cannot be, have or do, then you're operating from a place of pure love, and people resonate to "your song"...people flock to you, because your essence is so much brighter...

Welcome aboard...


To your dating success...

Feelgood.
 

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Feel good good post. I disagree with the `do not be satisfied with the way things are`. You should be SATISFIED, and GRATEFUL of all the things you already have, but be willing to moving on to make things better.
Gratitude is a powerful tool.

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Do not be satisfied with the way things are.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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