"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GrimPhallic

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Alright guys, I have been reading and following this site for a while, but I just registered today. My story sucks... I was in a relationship for five years and she recently broke it off. She broke my heart and I dont ever want to feel that way again, so I have been 'transforming' or 'leveling up' to a DJ. All you guys are great, and so far I am working on completing bootcamp. I have been out of the game for so long that I turned shy. Anyway didnt use to be that way before. But everything here has been great. The stories and advice is the best I have ever had and I just want you all to know that. So far in the time of one week I have almost fully gained my confidence back. And already I have started treating chicks like a DJ. This stuff is so easy if you are dedicated. Okay but I have some subjects in need of advice:

There is one subject that needs dealt with. How in the Fvck to you communicate with chicks from the car??? I have no trouble dealing with the ladies for the most part, but I always see a hot chick in a car that will trade eye contact with me and smile. Or (last night for an example) a girl will try to talk to me from her car while I am in mine. Anyway I just thought this would be a good subject for advice. So go at it doods.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yunghova35

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If your at a stop light pick up your phone and wave it in the air, if she has any sence she give you or yell you her number and you can take it from there...
 

Skel

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when you pull up to a hot chick in a car, point down at your penis then point at her and wink
 
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