"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how would you get a girl to subconsiously think about you? i did something that i did today that i belive was correct, i hungg out with her later during the dayy towards the nightt and she laughed a ton im guessing im on her mind until she goes to bed assuming she isnt see anyone else that same night?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Huh?

That's not really subconscious thinking there, it's just kind of a natural thought process. You hung out, and the same way she's on your mind in that you're posting a thread about her on here, if you handled yourself correctly she'll be thinking about you and the time she spent with you...
 
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You might consider reading into anchoring to. That will give you hints on how people associate a stimulus (a certain song for example) with a specific response (remembering you two dancing and feeling happy, a deep sense of conection, etc.)

Complex and some people seem to avoid it, bit it's worth looking into if you like that idea.
 
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