"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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subconsciously think about you

arabgangsta

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how would you get a girl to subconsiously think about you? i did something that i did today that i belive was correct, i hungg out with her later during the dayy towards the nightt and she laughed a ton im guessing im on her mind until she goes to bed assuming she isnt see anyone else that same night?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chemistry

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Huh?

That's not really subconscious thinking there, it's just kind of a natural thought process. You hung out, and the same way she's on your mind in that you're posting a thread about her on here, if you handled yourself correctly she'll be thinking about you and the time she spent with you...
 

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You might consider reading into anchoring to. That will give you hints on how people associate a stimulus (a certain song for example) with a specific response (remembering you two dancing and feeling happy, a deep sense of conection, etc.)

Complex and some people seem to avoid it, bit it's worth looking into if you like that idea.
 
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