“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Krassus

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Woah. Just woah. Whoever said that nearly all communication that takes place between humans is non-verbal wasn't kidding. I don't even know where to begin. I know bits and pieces that are so fascinating that they boggle the mind, and yet i doubt that i'm able to see more than a fraction of the whole picture.

What i do know is that we posess abilities, the existence of which is beyond the realm of knowledge of most people. For this reason, very few are able to use them, but those who can use them, consciously or not, are incredibly powerful.

Consider the fact that people around you subconsciously pick up on the way you feel without you even having to look at them. I couldn't believe it at first, but its true. Have you ever had one of those days when you felt supremely confident?

I mean when you knew, for a fact, beyond any doubt, that you can have absolutely anything that you ask of life? When you could feel, FEEL that you are absolutely the greatest man around and that every woman, EVERY woman, WANTS you?

Gentlemen, i have tried walking through a crowd like this and it is... unexplainable. You feel somehow connected, to everyone and everything, to the universe as a whole, and the moment you look at a person you get this feeling of absolute certainty that the two of you are able to communicate in ways that are unknown to most humans.

Dammit, i can almost, ALMOST grasp how its done! I think it has something to do with sexual energy. Its the strongest mind stimulant known to man, and the more stimulated the mind is, the closer it gets to a level of... oh fvck, its coming to me now. To the level of infinite ingelligence. Collective subconscious.

Woah. I just felt a chill in the back of my head and my entire body shivered. This is huge. My god... Yes, this is how it all connects. The confidence, the belief in the fact that you're desired, it makes your sexual energy skyrocket. That energy, in turn, magnetizes your mind and stepps it up to a high rate of vibration, allowing you to think on a higher plane.

On this plane, you gain the ability to be heard without speaking. This is the "aura." The "magnetism." This is the reason you can walk through the same exact crowd, wearing the exact same thing, but feeling completely different, and have every girl stare at you with hungry eyes, when the day before none even looked in your direction.

"Whatever he [Jesus] decreed, he felt inwardly to be true. He and the people needing help were in one universal subjective [subconscious] mind, and his silent inner knowing and conviction... changed the patterns in the patients' subconscious."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Miles Davis

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Yes, I can feel the subconcious connection as well. When I feel it, I don't have to think about techniques or tactics or anything else, because I KNOW I feel confident, and KNOW that people are picking up on it without me saying a word. When this communication is happening, you feel like you've gotten rapport with everyone in the room already...more so than people you see around who are in the middle of conversations. Incredible stuff.
 

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Very true. This is why two people can say the exact same thing and it can be perceived completely different. When you're down on yourself on the inside, no matter how many witty remarks you make, it cannot be hidden. When I first started fixing my social skills, i was unsuccesful until I began focusing on the subconcious communication I was making with parties I came in contact with. You can be down on yourself or up on yourself, either way people will know how you feel.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good epiphany, Krassus.
I had it several months ago and it certainly clarifies a lot of things. It's a trait of people who are unsuccesful that they don't feel like they're able to "win" the game. Those who are succesful, are the ones who don't even care if they win it, they're just there to have fun and see what happens.

There are a lot of different states that you can project to people around you. You can practice them, but it is not going to help you because your "glow" will stop as soon as you have contact with people. You need to be truly convinced of everything you are projecting, and be "real". Otherwise, it's only going to attract the wrong people.

Basically, the only lesson that you have learned is that you need to feel good on the inside, and those on the outside will recognize it instantly.
 

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You guys are completely missing the point. :) What you're talking about is subcommunication of internal states via body language and/or tonality. What i was actually referring to is more along the lines of telepathy.
 

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Krassus, I believe the late Rick James once said, "Cocaine is a hell of a drug!" (Or maybe for this post, LSD would be more appropriate) ;)

Jokes aside, I think I know what you're onto. I have felt that feeling before a couple times in my life, but it was only for a very short period of time. It's really hard to describe, but it's like all of a sudden, you have a completely different perspective on life and on other people. It's almost like an out-of-body experience, but within your own mind. You actually step outside of your own mind and see other other people the way they really are, without the biases and prejudices of your own ego. It really is like you can tell what other people are thinking, because you just understand ALL of them completely, probably because you understand yourself completely. Unexplainable yeah, but when you've felt it, it all makes sense.

That's really the best way I can put it into words...but the best way to get into that state is to be in complete acceptance of yourself...which I think is very rare for anybody to do, even for people with high levels of confidence.

I still think it's possible for anybody to get into the state, at least a more subdued form of the state. Just be accepting of who you are, your self-image, and good things will come. But I think what Krassus is talking about is like Nirvana or some ****.
 

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Hey I continuosly have the on and off days , when I feel connected to everyone and when I feel I am not connected to myself even.

It is still an amaising thing when I experience it.
Also I think it is related to body language.

Everovone can both see and feel your power so to speak. Amaising.
 
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