"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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subconcious attraction

big_jeffry

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hey dj's what is subconsious attraction? and how can i apply it when i dj women?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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M2k961

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Yea, he means nonverbal.

Hit the bible.
 

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Originally posted by big_jeffry
and how can i apply it when i dj women?
I don't really know any other way... unless your gay
 

JSH

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Subconscious attraction, is to like someone at a subconscious way because they feed you at that level with what you want too her. This is mainly what the ideas behind SS is, try www.fastseduction.com.

Once you get into that you begin to have it less at a natural level and more at a mechanical level. Of running games and playing sets and using re detirmined games, openings and stories. It can be good if you wish to do so. But try and use this site's self improvement doctrine, it works just as well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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