"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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subconcious attraction

big_jeffry

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hey dj's what is subconsious attraction? and how can i apply it when i dj women?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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M2k961

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Yea, he means nonverbal.

Hit the bible.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by big_jeffry
and how can i apply it when i dj women?
I don't really know any other way... unless your gay
 

JSH

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Subconscious attraction, is to like someone at a subconscious way because they feed you at that level with what you want too her. This is mainly what the ideas behind SS is, try www.fastseduction.com.

Once you get into that you begin to have it less at a natural level and more at a mechanical level. Of running games and playing sets and using re detirmined games, openings and stories. It can be good if you wish to do so. But try and use this site's self improvement doctrine, it works just as well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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