"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chosen1

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Everybody has heard of the pua style well i got bored and looked over thundercat's website about the annhilation method and on day 2 they had a lot of tips of tricks which are

1. Best Friend Test
2. “C”s vs. “U”s
3. Name Mnemonics
4. Cigarette Vanish
5. Various other playful games

Now to me it seems he needs all these tips and tricks and that is his style but to me it is a lot to do especially if you first meet a girl

and also in his book the game he talks about people being social robots but it seems to me that he him self is an offshoot of mystery and that he is make other social robots let me know what you all think
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think Style learned his game through the tricks, routines, etc. and through then began to understand the pyschological dynamics that made them succesful, w. women.

From there... Homey transcended and has certainly gone beyond, into just sheer game. Past the pre-meditated approaches. Sort of like Bruce Lee mastering the style of Wing Chun Technique then melting into a more masterful level of free-form fighting.

A lot of that sh!t is great and has its place/purpose. He probably still utilizes it... but in a more surgical manner, and just as a tool in response to the moment.

My understanding is a lot pua's learn "the game" through such training wheels, then get their mac down respond from their own flow.

Props to Style...

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I would have to agree.

It seems that basically what we do while studying this stuff is learn techniques others have found that work, etc..but in the long run, what we're really after, is to not have routines and techniques, but just have them intergrated from our own personal style..Most of this is just experience and confidence building I think.

Good martial arts analogy. It's the same with any art form.

:)
 
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