"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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thebestthing

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Alrighty, I've just finished the DJ Bible and I'm doin a lot better than I was a few weeks ago. The school year's just about ended and I'm looking to improve the last out-of-date thing in my DJ repertoire [well, I need to fix my hair too, but it's not that bad, I don't think]. That would be my clothes, for the slower ones out there.

I'm still in High School but I've never been one that's been to great on style. I typically go with T-shirt & Jeans and a pair of Nikes, I have zero accessories, and I end up recycling the same shirts every week. It's embarrassing and needs to change.

Suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's-Me

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thebestthing said:
Alrighty, I've just finished the DJ Bible and I'm doin a lot better than I was a few weeks ago. The school year's just about ended and I'm looking to improve the last out-of-date thing in my DJ repertoire [well, I need to fix my hair too, but it's not that bad, I don't think]. That would be my clothes, for the slower ones out there.

I'm still in High School but I've never been one that's been to great on style. I typically go with T-shirt & Jeans and a pair of Nikes, I have zero accessories, and I end up recycling the same shirts every week. It's embarrassing and needs to change.

Suggestions?
You should get a black pair of pants (not dressy, kind of like jeans). They look really good and go with almost everything. You should also get a white pair of pants (keep them for parties because it's a bit more classy and a b1tch to keep clean). You should also go for tight jeans instead of baggy (not too tight though).

For t-shirts, you should go for brands like Ed Hardy, Affliction, D&G, True Religion, Zara, American Eagle, Guess, Lucky 7 and brands like that. Ed Hardy is usually expensive, but you should buy them when their on special or get fakes (people won't be able to tell). V-neck shirts are also very nice and inexpensive.

For shoes, you should have a least one pair of casual black shoes because black shoes match with everything. You can also get a pair of casual white shoes. You'll need a pair of dress shoes for special occasions. And the sport shoes don't really matter, just got Nike or anything like that.

Well that's my advice on fashion :).
 

slickaz

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id suggest getting a blazer.
preferrably suede. get 2 if you can, one black and one a tan color etc.
those two colors go with ANY colored shirt and pants and can make you look fly in a club and decent at a good dinner date.

id also say, find a hat style that suits you, fifty hats fit me well but army hats and cheese cutters do an AWESOME job with a blazer of the same color.

always match your shoes and belt.

if you wanna go an extra mile with accessories, get a sweat band, same color as your tshirt. SO many girls come up and ask me why i wear a sweat band, and i tell em some reason like, i play alota ball and im so used to wearin it, that i just wear it all the time..good convo topic..go into some BS about it.

get one pair of high tops, one mid top pair and one pair of black formal shoes.
maybe a pair of loafers (ive got the white lacoste set, and they do wonders)

my high top reeboks get ALOT of attention from girls, ive been complimented on them MANY times at bars and at malls by girls over them.

also get one good watch, nothing TOO shiny, something with a big face and good instrumentation.
go with sieko, casio etc they are not TOO expensive but do a good job.
ive got a tag but that was a gift from an ex. that again gets alot of attention.

v necks, shirts with arms folded up, scarves, non black formal jackets, all of these add flavour to your style, because every other guy is going to wear a stripped full sleeve shirt to the club, with jeans and white loafers.

you need to stand out. so go to your mall and hunt down your style.

here is an idea, something i DO all the time.
go to the mall and get the prettiest chic in your fav shop to help you, and grill her for how good you look, get a convo going and get her number.
you kill 2 birds, 1 stone
 
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