"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey everyone. Let me first say that I am pretty new to the game, but I am not a complete AFC.

I was wondering if there was any clothes/jewlery that is interesting that you used as props. If so, where did you get them?

One of my friends is fantastic with women, and he has alot of cool clothes that seem to shout out a unique style.

Also, do many of you gel/spike your hair?

Thanks in advance.

~S
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll tell you what, pal: Clothes aren't going to do much for you if you don't have the confidence to wear them. Work on your personality and social interactions before you start worrying about style. That whole thing should come as a personal touch anyway; I look like a skeezer in shirts and ties, but I pull off the acid-wash jeans and casual rocker look pretty well. Different girls respond to different looks - you need to determine what kinda girl you want to go after before you worry about what you're wearing. ;)
 
Rollo Tomassi

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Acid washed jeans,...heheheh,...

:D

Peacocking is a Mystery Method term. Go read the DJ Bible first. You need to change your mind before you change your clothes.
 
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