"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Style (Neil Strauss), on 'The View'

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea I saw that on the View the other day (dont ask me why I watch the view). Cant believe he is proclaimed the greatest PUA. He even used the terms PUA and AFC on the program. I was wondering if he is registered on SS. Does anyone know?
 
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He posts on mASF, but he's gonna be pretty busy over the next few weeks I think. His book is moving up the charts on Amazon, and I know he's doing book signings all over the world to promote it. It's gonna be huge, guys.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Anyone planning on buying the book without checking out the reviews?

Just curious.
 
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His PUA name is Style. Neil Strauss is a writer for the NY Times, and is very good friends with Mystery and other big players in the community.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The book wasn't too kind to TD and RJ from what I've read.

I also plan on picking it up.

Oh yeah, if a guy with Style's looks can land a HB9 like the one he is currently dating, then anyone should be able to do reasonably well if they study PU and apply what they learned.
 
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