"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Style (Neil Strauss), on 'The View'

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Carnegie

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Yea I saw that on the View the other day (dont ask me why I watch the view). Cant believe he is proclaimed the greatest PUA. He even used the terms PUA and AFC on the program. I was wondering if he is registered on SS. Does anyone know?
 

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He posts on mASF, but he's gonna be pretty busy over the next few weeks I think. His book is moving up the charts on Amazon, and I know he's doing book signings all over the world to promote it. It's gonna be huge, guys.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Anyone planning on buying the book without checking out the reviews?

Just curious.
 

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His PUA name is Style. Neil Strauss is a writer for the NY Times, and is very good friends with Mystery and other big players in the community.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The book wasn't too kind to TD and RJ from what I've read.

I also plan on picking it up.

Oh yeah, if a guy with Style's looks can land a HB9 like the one he is currently dating, then anyone should be able to do reasonably well if they study PU and apply what they learned.
 
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