Style.. how to find yours?

[JohnChops]

Wasup fellas, so my game is improving but my god Ill admit that I am horrible at dressing myself. I feel just bland and boring in the usual cargo shorts and plaid shirts, im bored of that crap.

Problem is, I have noidea what I look good in. I know you fellas can't really tell me exactly what to buy, in terms of clothing, but any tips would be awesome. Everyone knows when you dress well, you feel good and that energy is just awesome, not just for picking up women, but for life in it self.

I also feel like the way you dress, has a certain pull on different groups of women from emo types of girls, to artsy and just basic abercrombie wearing girls.

I usually wear abercrombie, hollister, and all that stupid sh1t, I hate it. Refuse to wear it anymore, not to mention as I grew substantially, it no longer fits properly anymore.

What do you fellas recommend? How can I go about this? I want to change my look! :moon: :rockon:

 

[MtnMan]

I had let my style go to shat while in an ltr and had the same thoughts you are having. I started looking at google images of current male styles. Most of the pictures of pretty over the top, but you can start to get ideas.

I am tall and slender but with defined muscles, so I started wearing dark colored tight fitting v- necks and crew t's. They look good and show off my muscles. I used to wear large shirts, but switched to mediums and they look so much better.

For jeans I also started wearing tighter fit jeans. I ponied up the money for nicer more designer type jeans.

For footwear I bought some nice puma sneakers, and a pair of really nice leather dressy boots.

My new style is simple, but I look so much better. I would like to evolve it to something more sofisticated too.

Obviously your style and body type could be completely different, but you can still use google images to get an idea. Also start checking out other guys, and see if anything catches your eye. Make a mental note of what looks good on other dudes that you might be able to translate into your own personal style.

Try on lots of different things and pay close attention to fit. Fit is way more important than most men realize.

Start simple, experiment and build on what you like. Have fun with it!

 

[om1xr]

I've just uploaded these examples for sosuave members
Check it out : http://imgur.com/a/awfZb

 

[BeDJ]

V-neck tees and slim fit button-ups. If you aren't wearing a tee, tuck it in an wear a belt.

go shopping with a female friend, the slvttier the better(but not too trashy). I've done this 4 times. 1) was trying to keep me in the fan club and not slvtty enough, like shopping with my mom so will pick clothes that are too conservative(duh). 2) was my now ex-GF but a friend at the time who was lusting too hard at my body and too young and immature so just wanted anything that was form-fitting aka too tight, a no brainer any guy can dress like that if they have the body but will not make you stylish. The two ho's did awesome, 3) was a little too biased towards prep stuff. but still probably did help. 4) was a mega ho that sort of wanted me still so tried to undermine me but eventually picked some great stuff. They have experience with a large variety of men and know what looks good on men of all types.

As far as what has worked for me, I am a short bulky guy, tight shirts and jeans seem to work fine. Suits and blazers don't do jack sh!t for me in the club, they're not really for guys your age anyway. Fitting in is pretty important so dress to fit in but then go a little extra on some detail to stand out in some way.

Holy sh!t PairPlusRoyalFlush,

I came back in 2012 and followed your posts back then. You are definitely transition to a very different stage from your 2012 self, according to your posting history. I don't know man, I'm not trying to say anything, but damn. You weren't who I would have thought would make these posts a couple years later. I don't know man, something changed.

 

[Special EDy]

Look through some magazines at the checkout stand. Especially the ones with stars in them and ladies magazines.

Give it a couple of years, this is the time when you are figuring yourself out. You will become more settled and confident as you age, supposing you are walking in the right direction which it sounds like you are.

 

[JohnChops]

so you fellas were talking about fitting clothes, so not really baggy, clothes that just fit. So I have a few shirts that fit me really really well. I am a larger guy, not fat, just larger and I really don't like wearing tight, fitting clothes (lol) so when I went out on Saturday night I was wearing a loose fit shirt, baggy, and got 0 looks from anyone really. It sucked.

Went out last night, wore a tighter fitting shirt, you could see everything and I was about to bust out of this shirt, got looks up the arse and a number.

Blah, thats pretty interesting but kind of annoying at the same time because I hate wearing tight sh1t lol.

ANyway you fellas were right Fit > Baggy clothing.

 

[MattTheW]

so you fellas were talking about fitting clothes, so not really baggy, clothes that just fit. So I have a few shirts that fit me really really well. I am a larger guy, not fat, just larger and I really don't like wearing tight, fitting clothes (lol) so when I went out on Saturday night I was wearing a loose fit shirt, baggy, and got 0 looks from anyone really. It sucked.

Went out last night, wore a tighter fitting shirt, you could see everything and I was about to bust out of this shirt, got looks up the arse and a number.

Blah, thats pretty interesting but kind of annoying at the same time because I hate wearing tight sh1t lol.

ANyway you fellas were right Fit > Baggy clothing.

My "usual" wear is baggy skater ish stuff, really baggy hoodies and jeans etc

Hit the gym, and no one noticed a thing (apart from fat from my face dropping off) got the odd comment, you're face is looking thin etc.....

Decided to start wearing better fitting clothes (I still wear hoodies, but usually take them off where I can) and get a lot more attention, everyone keeps asking how I lost so much weight so fast - keep telling them, it was lost months ago, I just didn't wear the right clothes to show it off

Wearing the wrong clothes can seriously mess up your chances......

 

[JNil]

Name brands equal stereotypes, I've learned not wearing that stuff will give you a broader range of women.