"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mostly streetwear clothing brands like The Hundreds, Undftd, Diamond Supply Co., 10 Deep, Mishka, Supreme, etc.

Honestly The Hundreds is something EVERYONE here in LA wears, just for the brand name. To be honest, there new clothes for '09 and '08 sucked. Undftd is a more sports oriented (basketball mostly) brand. Diamond is a skate oriented brand. Mishka is a more hipsterish kind of streetwear but they have dope pieces and the people from Mishka are cool as hell. Supreme is a heavily skate oriented brand as well.

Mooseshirts.com and Karmaloop.com has most of these streetwear brands. Supreme only sell their stuff at select stores. I suggest you go to supremenewyork.com to cop thier stuff online.

Also, most people here wear vans and Nike SB's. But get old school SB's, SB's put out some ugly colorways nowadays. CCs.com has some as well as FlightClubLA.com Try to get Vans Syndicates, those are the more "limited edition" colorways that most people can't get their hands on so you could be the only person wearing 'em.

Uhh I know I sound like a hypebeast but that's msotly what people wear here :cool:

Also, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't wear crazy colors, colored skinny jeans, and tight shirts with vests. You'll look ridiculous. Just don't go crazy with colors. It's okay to stand out but when you start looking like a bag of skittles your trying too hard.
 
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Yeah no problem. Also, keep everything proportioned. For example, don't wear a big ass shirt with skinny jeans and big, chunky shoes. Uhh, gray slim jeans are your best friend. They go with black, white, banana yellow, and more. If you shop just try everything on and take your time. Bootcut jeans are lame (that's my personal opinion). Um...black and white shoes make a good everyday shoe. Lol I'm just giving you random advice :whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't listen to those brahs. Get a good fitting pair of Diesels, whatever cut fits you best. Get a bunch of aa vnecks, aa crewnecks, and some good fitting button ups and your set. Chucks and a pair of classic lace up vans are always in to. Simple looks are the best, not flashy **** like supreme is.
 

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^^Simple outfits are nice as well. Vans black/white authentics are a classic, simple shoe too. But the most important rule of all when picking out clothes is too wear whatever you like. Persoanlly I don't like wearing all that colorful sh*t like some people in LA do (youtube "Your a Jerk" to see what I mean by colorful). I prefer a little more simpler styles, but not too simple either.
 

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thebestthing said:
Hollister and ^ is the easy way to get through high school. Get a nice pair of shoes, too.
What that guy said was OBVIOUSLY sarcasm. Never, I repeat NEVER WEAR ANY so cal clothing. It's like wearing Ed Hardy, Christian Audigier, or Affliction.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Beavis said:
What that guy said was OBVIOUSLY sarcasm. Never, I repeat NEVER WEAR ANY so cal clothing. It's like wearing Ed Hardy, Christian Audigier, or Affliction.
I'm srs brah.


You dont need to wear stuff with the logo everywhere, but get some nice jeans, sweaters, dress shirts, plaids.
 

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Beavis said:
What that guy said was OBVIOUSLY sarcasm. Never, I repeat NEVER WEAR ANY so cal clothing. It's like wearing Ed Hardy, Christian Audigier, or Affliction.
This is untrue, I've gotten plenty compliments on my hollister clothing from girls.

But I also live in Southern California. :up:
 

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some hollister stuff is nice. However, its too teenage-ish to me. I'd rather stand out than blend with the crowd.

I myself don't like wearing stuff where the logo is plastered on the shirt.

Teenage, young 20s, I recommend what most of the guys said. VERY nice jeans, FITTED clothing(shirts, jeans, etc.). Put some color too, but make sure it matches your skin tone. Don't go too crazy.

Get graphic tees, they are totally in. However, the designs on em shoudn't be too outstanding. No glitters, shiny stuff, skulls, birds(overdone IMO).

Get some crewnecks and vnecks. Get some accesorries(a necklace, rings, watch, etc.) Get a sports jacket too if you want.

Get some converse shoes..or diesal..or lacoste...

get shorts, the stylish ones you see at GAP or Old Navy. Start wearing linen pants since its summer...

I think if you get all that stuff, you are set.
 
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