"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stupidity + AFC = jail time

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This is classic, a dumb couple tries to pull off a robbery where I live. OK, both of these people are white trash. But it was hilarious seeing this on TV. This dumb, poor 19-year old AFC white trash guy is married to this butch-dyke looking chick, and she's PREGNANT, and now they're going to do jail time. Apparently they were having "financial difficulties" -- gee, you think?

http://www.idahostatesman.com/newsupdates/story/211103.html

OK, no free passes for either one, but do you think if this guy had some nads and a clue in life he's not marrying an ugly woman at 19, not impregnating an ugly woman at 19, not robbing a fast food joint at 19, and actually getting a life? AFCism wins again! Or perhaps I'm looking too deep into this, perhaps the guy is just one of the millions of morons in this country, as is his ugly wife.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think you are 100% on Westcoaster. Man, she is UGLY!

But, I see US soldiers with UGLY wives every day at the Army posts over here in Germany... the men are young, dumb and in shape, and have ugly, fat wives with kids.. they are all under 21!! WTF???

You cannot stop AFCs from ruining thier lives.. they are like Chinese infantry, my father's buddies shot down one regiment, the next regiment popped up to advance!! (Korean War). AFCs keep on popping up just like this!

They are unstoppable!

Dietzcoi
 

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I don't think his attitude and actions toward women are the root of his issues honestly.
 

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His problems with women are a symptom, not the disease. If was funny watching them on TV, she sitting on his lap, they're kissing, acting like they've duped the cops -- this was before they were arrested.

No, being a white trash loser is his problem ... but let's look at it this way: What if someone told him he could actually not get married to someone at 19 and actually do something useful, like learn a trade, work on a career, get an education, or travel? Or perhaps this punk could've learned these things by himself instead of someone having to tell him.

And why did they have financial problems? Because he's married at 19 and she's pregnant, and he didn't see a world ahead of him. A lot of young men in this country are going down the stupidity route -- just read the high school board on this site. Tons and tons of young men in this country think women will solve their problems.

AFCism is a symptom of this guy's problems, and it's a big symptom.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think the person in picture is the guy.... agreed?
 
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