"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stupidity + AFC = jail time

WestCoaster

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This is classic, a dumb couple tries to pull off a robbery where I live. OK, both of these people are white trash. But it was hilarious seeing this on TV. This dumb, poor 19-year old AFC white trash guy is married to this butch-dyke looking chick, and she's PREGNANT, and now they're going to do jail time. Apparently they were having "financial difficulties" -- gee, you think?

http://www.idahostatesman.com/newsupdates/story/211103.html

OK, no free passes for either one, but do you think if this guy had some nads and a clue in life he's not marrying an ugly woman at 19, not impregnating an ugly woman at 19, not robbing a fast food joint at 19, and actually getting a life? AFCism wins again! Or perhaps I'm looking too deep into this, perhaps the guy is just one of the millions of morons in this country, as is his ugly wife.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think you are 100% on Westcoaster. Man, she is UGLY!

But, I see US soldiers with UGLY wives every day at the Army posts over here in Germany... the men are young, dumb and in shape, and have ugly, fat wives with kids.. they are all under 21!! WTF???

You cannot stop AFCs from ruining thier lives.. they are like Chinese infantry, my father's buddies shot down one regiment, the next regiment popped up to advance!! (Korean War). AFCs keep on popping up just like this!

They are unstoppable!

Dietzcoi
 

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I don't think his attitude and actions toward women are the root of his issues honestly.
 

WestCoaster

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His problems with women are a symptom, not the disease. If was funny watching them on TV, she sitting on his lap, they're kissing, acting like they've duped the cops -- this was before they were arrested.

No, being a white trash loser is his problem ... but let's look at it this way: What if someone told him he could actually not get married to someone at 19 and actually do something useful, like learn a trade, work on a career, get an education, or travel? Or perhaps this punk could've learned these things by himself instead of someone having to tell him.

And why did they have financial problems? Because he's married at 19 and she's pregnant, and he didn't see a world ahead of him. A lot of young men in this country are going down the stupidity route -- just read the high school board on this site. Tons and tons of young men in this country think women will solve their problems.

AFCism is a symptom of this guy's problems, and it's a big symptom.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think the person in picture is the guy.... agreed?
 
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