"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stupid Word 'Man'

michaelhctam

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When I am nervous with a girl, I make a horribly AFC mistake of treating that girl as one of my mates. So then in the middle of the convo.

Like at the end of the sentence I would subconciously say, "Man"....like..."Yeah man....we can do that sometimes man".

UGHHH!!!!

And is it a bad sign if a girl does the same to you? Today I was chatting with a girl and she said "Oh no! That must be horrible man!" (about my black eye).

.....

Do girls usually use the word man? (-___-)"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plec07

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I wouldn't look into it too much. I got this one girl who keeps calling everyone "kid". I just use it as another thing to give her sh*t about lol. Some girls may find it cool you do that. I get told quite a bit that girls like the way I sometimes say "dude" even though I very rarely do it.
 
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