"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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stupid question but..slightly OT

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Why do you people text message instead of just calling the girl or person?? It's much easier to call and for them to answer than actually typing the letters in your phone. And much quicker too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i see this phenomina happening a lot lately with the whole text message craze...i think people are accepting it more since a lot of communication nowdays is text based (aol instant messanger, bb's like this one, ect)

i think that texting is was too impersonaly and destroys your opportunity to use your voice and charm...

however, text messaging is a good way to send a clever c/f note...
 
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Sometimes txting is the right thing to use, it all depends on the situation. For example if you're in a meeting or in class you can txt "lets get together when I get out of class" it lets the girl know that your thinking of her and that makes her feel special.. But this can be overused. Never use txting or sms when setting up a date.. use it only as a pre-requisit to the phone call. in the example above if the girl responds with an ok or positive response reply with "Ill be out at X:XX time call me" and put your phone away. This requires the girl to show initiative and makes her have to work to get together with you.. you set the bait and wait to see if she bites. It is also good to use after a date or such that you closed on and there need to be things said that would just be a waste of time on the phone. such as "I had a great time earlier, call me tomorrow" (hopefully she is the one sending this) and the guy to reply with something like "ok".

In a nut-shell think of txting or sms as an ADJECTIVE for the phone call.. it is also a good way to test someones IL after you hang out with them because text-messages are the easiest thing for someone to ignore or make an excuse as to why they didnt get it or couldn't reply.. If the girl really cant send txt's then she will call you. Now I'm starting to ramble so I hope this helps.
 
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SMS is a huge phenomenon in Europe right now. There is no difference between SMS and actually doing your groceries.

However, I do agree though. I never SMS a girl. Unless it's to tease.

Each SMS costs me 10 cents plus 5 minutes to ****ing type it.


No girl is worth that. I might as well just talk to her.
 
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