"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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stupid question but i'm going to ask it anyways

Robert28

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why do girls, some not all, have their status set to 'single' on myspace and facebook but yet they have boyfriends?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tiguere

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For attention since they are currently dating a chump for fear of being alone.
 

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a lot of young girls are attention *****s...and so love attention, saying "taken" they wont get as many horn-dogs trying to chat them up online

if ur in an exclusive RL wiht a girl she shoudl be PROUD to show you off....if not a possible red flag...of course definately a RF if she never tells people about it
 
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I have a couple female friends who have done this...personally I think they just don't need to have other people knowing their business. If you break up then everyone finds out, etc. Not totally sure I haven't asked them though.
 

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Cos the boyfriend is a chump.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Because they're looking to trade up at all times.
 
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