Theres this girl that I've been doing stuff with since december. Everything was going good until a few weeks ago. Her parents don't want her to be with me anymore, because I'm 3 years older than her. I dont know what happened, they were always nice to me and everything, but all of a sudden they wont even let her leave the house because they dont want her seeing me. Is there anything I could try doing so we can start seeing eachother again, or am I pretty much screwed?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Stupid Question About Parents
- Thread starter lfmattp
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
shydude
Master Don Juan
NO, you are not screwed, she is screwed! Its not surprising her parents do that, you are 3 years older and they think you are going to fukk her every SINGLE day. YOu can try talking to her parents, if you have guts to do that. Or you can NEXT her, or you can hangout after school, or she can tell lies to her parents that she found boyfriend her age.. Or you can call her and think of something with her! GOOD LUCK 
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
I'd talk to her parents for sure. You don't need to try to convince them of anything. I'd just ask them what was up, and if you've done anything that makes them not trust you anymore. Depending on their answer, decide on your next course of action. Good luck to you!