"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stupid question about height...not the normal one

Moofahsa

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I found this knock out gorgeous girl that is interested in me.

This girl is a knockout, I was sitting down and she talked to me...it was all going good until I stood up.

I'm 6'9"...210

This girl is 5' maybe 100lbs?

Doesn't freak me out or anything, but would you do a double take with a giant walking with a midget?

I'm not usually attracted to short girls, but this girl has a great attitude and is a knock out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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J-Bone

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hah yeh I'd prolly make a small joke if I was with some girl but theres nothing wrong with it. If her presence makes you happy then you should seek to get more happiness. what other people think doesn't matter and oh yeh Im not ragging on you about the joke i'd only use it if i needed to keep conversation going in order to keep the day interesting. its really not a big deal go for it
 

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yeh seriously we dont wanna hear you come back on with the thread topic "She broke! what do I do?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ

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she could suck your **** while standing up!
 

Moofahsa

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It was weird, I had heard she was interested and was eating dinner with my family and some other company, she comes to take our order and I'm eye level sitting down.

She puts her hand on my shoulder and is all flirty, I didn't notice it at the time but I got a phone call when our order came and I stood up and she literally came up to my waist and she looks up at me and gives me a big smile...I walked out and was thinking..."holy ****"

shes fine, but damn guys I don't care what people think to a point but I don't wanna look like I have some kind of twisted fetish going on...know what I mean? Shes not my normal type, 6'+...but damn shes so rockin

I was talking with some guys I knew at the bar portion of the place and she pinches me and keeps walking. I know without a doubt shes ultra interested but I just don't know...I'm on one end the spectrum and shes on the other. I'm not one to freak out but I don't know...shes 2 years older, no kids, single, rockin in a place with not so rockin girls...but then again her boss has been talking me up so whatever.

ramble on
 

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It depends... can you see yourself having a relationship with this girl or you jus wana have fun for the time being?
 

Moofahsa

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I really don't know yet to be honest.

Shes seems cool, but if a hot chick around here seems flawless there is always some underlying issue. I haven't figured it out yet, so until then I'm still undecided. Maybe I found one without issues, but in my dozen cases of finding hot girls around here there is always something that makes me run for the hills.
 

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Well basically if you jus wana have fun, then go for it, you got nothing to lose, you already said she has a high IL in you, so it doesn't look like you'll be making much effort to make something happen.

However if you wana pursue a relationship with this girl after you've decided what you wana do, then not sayin don't go for her cause if she makes you happy then thats what its all about- but keep in mind when in a relationship make sure you're completely satisfied with what you're getting yourself into, don't settle for second best or jump into a relationship with cold feet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MMAer

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Go for it man I'm 6'7 and i've only ever been with shorter girls actualy dated a girl who was under 5' so I see no problem with it. Most short girls are into tall guys.
 

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You have a built in peacock with the 6'9. For some reason of all the guys above 6'7 who I have been friends with have always been popular and universally liked, whats the deal there?

As for your problem, it is noticable when you see a very tall guy with a shorty, but then again, you would be noticable on your own.
Personally I wouldnt let it hold me back.
 

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MMAer said:
Most short girls are into tall guys.
Not surprising, they don't want to pass the curse of shortness on to their future kids. They are probably more militant about dating a tall guy than a tall woman is.

I though, sex would be really strange with a height disparity like that. I mean you'd be banging her and her head would be well underneath your chest.
 
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