"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stupid mistakes I will never make again...

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BenPW-DJNewbie

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It's pretty small, but it has cost me alot of girls before I realized what I was doing wrong, and it was freaking the girls I liked, out.

Mistake: Eying up women, keep staring at them
Lesson: Don't keep staring at them, and if you DOget eye contact, for god's sake, smile! Show them, that cheeky grin, and perfect to approach and introduce yourself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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James Bondage

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Mistake: Getting incredibly drunk in front of a girl I liked
Lesson: Man this happened four years ago but still feels like it was yesterday. I know some people have sort of covered this one but trust me it is so important!

If you want to get really drunk, it's best to only ever do this in front of your close mates (or perhaps in an established LTR but this is still dangerous ground).

Basically there was a girl at work and things were going really well (flirting etc).. until one night at a party I proceeded to get absolutely hammered. Bearing in mind she was giving us a lift home and thus completely sober this wasn't a good idea at all, but at the time I really wasn't thinking like that.

I was having a good time, but for some reason (I don't know why, but I hate this) sometimes when I get drunk I start acting a bit stupid. I don't realise at the time (in fact I think I am the funniest guy around and everyone is laughing at my jokes) but in reality I basically am acting like a complete d1ck.

I started making very tasteless jokes about people's mothers, and... I won't say the rest but let's just say that was the tip of the iceberg. I can remember a very awkward journey home (hideously painful when I awoke and sobered up) and let's just say it just about killed any attraction she may have had for me there and then. She left the company soon after, and that was the end of that.

So only get really drunk in front of people who you aren't trying to attract sexually!!
 
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