Stupid Mistake.. But I can still fix it if she comes tom so what should i do?

[YoungSir4sho]

Long story short.. We Neva met in person before.. Know her from a friend of a friend on facebook.. We been on n off talkin on facebook for like a month. I got her number last week n she was supposed to come travel here which takes 2hours n come see me last sat.. She didn't message me bac or anything so she fronted..

I stopped talkin to her but then messaged her yesterday morning saying that was messed up how she fronted n even tho u not gonna message bac I hope u do good in life n I said u lost out on a good man.. She messaged me few hours after that saying that she did messaged me that day asking for my address etc excuse..

So I sent her a message bac sayin well u could have at least called or fb me to let me know.. Then she said that she was nervous n that she didn't wanna make it seem like she was after me awhole lot.. After that we keep textin bac n forth for a few hours..

I asked her she has to make it up to me n she said she will n that she would see me Friday night but would take da train out here since her car ain't workin.. Ok that was all good..

Here is the mistake tho, like always I'm impatient with women n how it used to work was me spittin game n making them my girl that same day.. So we was talkin bout relationships etc bout if eitha of us r jealous.. Then I said how's about we take a risk on us n u b my girl.. She then comes up wit that she doesn't wanna take da risk cuz she doesn't wanna get hurt.. Then I said I won't.. Then i asked her again.. She then said honestly that she is not ready to get in a relationship right now.. So then i said iight n wat time she would come see me Tom cuz she is gonna spend da nite if she shows up.. So wat do I do now.. Is there any way that I can make her my girl or still have sex wit her... If I have sex wit her Tom afterwards would it b alright for me to ask her to b minez? I usually do this n it works but a few times it hasn't....

 

[xdreamz]

u have to play it cool now.. its just a matter of making her feel that you are the prize... push pull is a great way to break her down. once she still has some work to do you go in with the move at isolation, 1anchor again, 2escalate, 3shift/relocate, 123123123123123

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Thx, in my mind tho if she actually comes thru since it's like a 2:30 hour trip.. That if I play my cards right I'll b havin sex wit her tonite.. And if that happens then it's a wrap.. I'll guess I'll have to wait n see what happens.. If we do have sex should i mention to her for her to b my girl.. I know alot of ppl don't go for that on here but for me in past years that had 95% worked for me.. Once i had sex wit a girl I usually make her my girl right after so how ppl say to wait months n other bs... That doesn't work for me.. N quite frankly I like it that way.

 

[Iceberg]

Is there any way that I can make her my girl or still have sex wit her... If I have sex wit her Tom afterwards would it b alright for me to ask her to b minez? I usually do this n it works but a few times it hasn't....

1. It's really hard to understand what you're trying to say if you're typing like a 13 year internet gangsta. It's the internet, man. No matter how much slang you use, nobody sounds hard when they're on the internet. Not to mention, you're pretty old for all that.

2. Why do you need her to be your girl? Why can't occasional sex be good enough? You "neva even met her"....how do you know she's girlfriend material?

Plus she lives 2 hours away. You lonely or somethin? Desperate for affection? Just take it as it comes.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

I'm just use to typing this way cuz Ive been doin that for awhile on facebook, aim etc.. N nah I ain't desperate lol Im just tired of just occasional sex with random girls.. I'm past that stage already.. I'm lookin for a relationship again so that's prolly y it seems like I'm desperate..

 

[Iceberg]

I'm just use to typing this way cuz Ive been doin that for awhile on facebook, aim etc.. N nah I ain't desperate lol Im just tired of just occasional sex with random girls.. I'm past that stage already.. I'm lookin for a relationship again so that's prolly y it seems like I'm desperate..

Well, it seems desperate because it is desperate. Think about it: So instead of having occasional sex with random girls you don't know, you're forcing relationships with random girls you don't know?

I don't see how this benefits anyone. Good luck finding someone who will give you advice on how to make that into a smart decision.

The way I see it, if the girl likes you, she'll "be your girl" automatically. So asking for it doesn't really help you. If the girl's gonna bang other guys or cheat on you, etc, the title "relationship" isn't gonna change anything. Either she's in to you or she isn't. A couple words like "Be my girl" aren't going to sway her one way or the other.

 

[PectoralisMajor]

ooh man dis is da bomb - ya sound so desperate puttin all dis effort into da girl who live 2 hour away nd flaked. why do dat man, go easy for sumthin klose.

I recommend you re-learn how to type normal English as you may need a skilled job one day which requires some knowledge of Grammar and spelling :kick:

As for this girl - you wont listen to me, but its too much effort even for sex. go for someone down the road instead. plenty of girls out there near you.

 

[Ease]

Nerds attack people online because it is the only place they can seek revenge for getting kicked around in life.

'Haha you can't spell your so under developed!!! stupid !!!'

 

[cordoncordon]

Long story short.. We Neva met in person before.. Know her from a friend of a friend on facebook.. We been on n off talkin on facebook for like a month. I got her number last week n she was supposed to come travel here which takes 2hours n come see me last sat.. She didn't message me bac or anything so she fronted..

I stopped talkin to her but then messaged her yesterday morning saying that was messed up how she fronted n even tho u not gonna message bac I hope u do good in life n I said u lost out on a good man.. She messaged me few hours after that saying that she did messaged me that day asking for my address etc excuse..

So I sent her a message bac sayin well u could have at least called or fb me to let me know.. Then she said that she was nervous n that she didn't wanna make it seem like she was after me awhole lot.. After that we keep textin bac n forth for a few hours..

I asked her she has to make it up to me n she said she will n that she would see me Friday night but would take da train out here since her car ain't workin.. Ok that was all good..

Here is the mistake tho, like always I'm impatient with women n how it used to work was me spittin game n making them my girl that same day.. So we was talkin bout relationships etc bout if eitha of us r jealous.. Then I said how's about we take a risk on us n u b my girl.. She then comes up wit that she doesn't wanna take da risk cuz she doesn't wanna get hurt.. Then I said I won't.. Then i asked her again.. She then said honestly that she is not ready to get in a relationship right now.. So then i said iight n wat time she would come see me Tom cuz she is gonna spend da nite if she shows up.. So wat do I do now.. Is there any way that I can make her my girl or still have sex wit her... If I have sex wit her Tom afterwards would it b alright for me to ask her to b minez? I usually do this n it works but a few times it hasn't....

Firstly, for the love of all humanity please either learn how to, or just do it....speak and write using proper grammar and English. You are 26, not 13.

Secondly, you ask a girl who you have never met face to face and who just ditched you to be "your girl"???? Are you really that desperate? I just can't ever imagine doing such a thing.

My advice, start acting like a 26 year old instead of a 13 year old gangsta wannabe, and forget all of this relationship talk. If she comes to see you, hang out, have fun, and let things happen as they may without forcing anything.

 

[Iceberg]

Nerds attack people online because it is the only place they can seek revenge for getting kicked around in life.

'Haha you can't spell your so under developed!!! stupid !!!'

Not to harp on this, but it's not like he misspelled a few words. He intentionally changes words to sound cooler. And it doesn't help me give him advice when I have to decipher my own language (English) to understand what he's saying.

Spelling "either" as "eitha"? Why bother? If he wants to verbally SPEAK slang, then go for it. Slang in written communication just looks dumb. If you have internet access and post on message boards, you're not "street".

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Well, it seems desperate because it is desperate. Think about it: So instead of having occasional sex with random girls you don't know, you're forcing relationships with random girls you don't know?

I don't see how this benefits anyone. Good luck finding someone who will give you advice on how to make that into a smart decision.

The way I see it, if the girl likes you, she'll "be your girl" automatically. So asking for it doesn't really help you. If the girl's gonna bang other guys or cheat on you, etc, the title "relationship" isn't gonna change anything. Either she's in to you or she isn't. A couple words like "Be my girl" aren't going to sway her one way or the other.

Saves me the time to respond; this is on the money!






PIMP

 

[Thundernuts]

Not to harp on this, but it's not like he misspelled a few words. He intentionally changes words to sound cooler. And it doesn't help me give him advice when I have to decipher my own language (English) to understand what he's saying.

Spelling "either" as "eitha"? Why bother? If he wants to verbally SPEAK slang, then go for it. Slang in written communication just looks dumb. If you have internet access and post on message boards, you're not "street".

finally someone said it.