"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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stupid girl how the are we suposed to understand them..

BuryYourDead

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ok so i do my normal log onto msn once a day thing and so my friend msgs me (girl) and well she says hi and we alk for like 30 seconds then shes says she has to go becuase her comp was freezing>??? highly unlikily...she starts covo and makes up exuse to leave? idk mabye it was true but i doubt

then today i went to movie theater with my fried (another girl_) and she says movie is boring and we shoudl leave.(not that i didnt agree) \

it wil take decades to understand there kind..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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qweretyuiopas

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idk about the movie thing but msn does crap out alot for me too. It prob did just freeze, besides she messaged you first if she didnt wanna talk she never would have said anything. Its cool man
 

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qweretyuiopas said:
idk about the movie thing but msn does crap out alot for me too. It prob did just freeze, besides she messaged you first if she didnt wanna talk she never would have said anything. Its cool man
then why she keep her comp on?! rawr i want to kill somone i hate being confused
 

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You can't figure out women, nobody can, they don't act on logic, but on emotion. Its an equation that doesn't add up or even have an answer. The only thing to do is understand yourself and be at peace with who you are. The rest will follow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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