"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stupid fat ugly frat guys get hot women... wtf

Enjin 7

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these frat guys. for the most part, they are not smart. they are not in shape, i.e. beer belly, they are not good looking, they are all the same, i.e. they have nothing to distinguish themselves from the rest of them...

so how are they pulling all the fine POONTANG!!!!??? gaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!

any help?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Enjin 7
these frat guys. for the most part, they are not smart. they are not in shape, i.e. beer belly, they are not good looking, they are all the same, i.e. they have nothing to distinguish themselves from the rest of them...

so how are they pulling all the fine POONTANG!!!!??? gaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!

any help?

they act like asses and dispense beer.

that's all you need to get women.
 

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Originally posted by Enjin 7
these frat guys. for the most part, they are not smart. they are not in shape, i.e. beer belly, they are not good looking, they are all the same, i.e. they have nothing to distinguish themselves from the rest of them...

so how are they pulling all the fine POONTANG!!!!??? gaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!

any help?

welll they can't be too stupid because there're gettin all the hot broads right?

--Think About IT-- Change ur atittude and you will get laid!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do what they're doing to get these "hot chicks."
 

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i thought the point was to be different from them.

whatever. this is stupid. i get eye ****ed all the time by their girlfriends so ill just keep doing my bootcamp thing and itll all work out for the best.

its social proof tho, thats for sure.
 

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why dont you just steal their women? if they start **** with you bash them in the head and put them in their place.
 

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They get women because they have game, and you do not. Instead of being jealous of them, learn to have as much game as them. Your looks, intelligence, etc. will then make it even easier for you once you learn how to interact with a woman.

-Dan
 

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Women like to go to parties. Frats have lots of parties. If you were a women were would you like to go? Out with a single guy or to a party with a bunch of single guys?

After that its just a numbers game.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nothing to do with the parties or them.

the reason they get chics is because they are part of a "scene". They are part of a group thats associated with being "cool" and having "fun".

Chics figure they get with one of them then they are part of the party scene and that they'll have fun.

you take these frat dudes, and stick them out on their own and disassociated them from the "scene" and they are no different than any other joe.

stop sweating this stuff dude.

half those chics will get date raped before they get out of college anyway.

J
 

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bcuz they have free booze for the ladies, duh!
 

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Confidence, Popularity, lots of booze, and a little pill slipped in a drink.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you want to get into the "cool" secne with all the frat guys you should get naked and run through your college **** slapping evey girl you see along the way.

It will work trust me.

Ninja out
 

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Be careful going to those frat parties dude.

Taking a girl from a frat party is a good way to get your ass kicked.
 

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Originally posted by Hoppy
Be careful going to those frat parties dude.

Taking a girl from a frat party is a good way to get your ass kicked.
Frat parties do get pretty vilonet. Last time i was at a frat party some guy spilled his beer on me so i killed everybody in the room with my Ninja skills.

Ninja out
 

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bwwaaaaaaaaaaaahaha!!!! yes!!!!!!

i can take an asskicking. i take them nearly every night in jiu jitsu and kickboxing. ;)

i guess what you guys say is true. totally just going to make friends with them.

the thing is, they act like little *****es around the women. "can i buy you a drink?" like being the girls little servant boy. it looks like the girls are just using them. i have to crack this damn code. haha
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Frat parties do get pretty vilonet. Last time i was at a frat party some guy spilled his beer on me so i killed everybody in the room with my Ninja skills.

Ninja out
lol
I personally would have just used a ninja smoke bomb and stole a girl right from under their noses!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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