"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stupid dumb ass wh-ores and nice guys

00Kevin

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Here is something I’ve always found funny.

20-25 year old girl opens her legs and f-ucks around (LJBFs all the nice guys)


10 years later.


30-35 year old woman now expects nice guys to like her and give her a ring.

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30-35 year old nice guy says "fu-ck you, I now have money and a nice car"

20-25 year old hot girl with fake boobs says – “slap my ass daddy”
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"slap my ass daddy"

truer words have never been said




The truth is most women don't have much going for them after they peak (25) so they want the stable type of guy. Until then they just want to be used and abused.
 

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Ya but

Guys, we all know women suck. The thing we should concentrate on is how to get them to suck us :)

I've put right and wrong, fair and unfair behind me. We have a lot working against us. An out of control legal system where both left and right wing factions give women a completely wacked sense of righteousness and can do no wrong, AFCs who give their life saving to a woman without batting an eye, and the fact that most immigration is actually male further increasing the choosiness women are allowed.

It takes an extraordinary guy to overcome all this and shine. However, those who do have it all the better for every guy who "quits" and becomes another AFC.
 

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^^^^

too true. theres no concept of 'fairness' in what we do, no question of equity or equilibrium. All that matters is that you either close or you don't.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kevin, are you implying 30-35 yr old HBs would have trouble finding nice guys (AFC)? Because I don't think they do. At that age, they are still fairly attractive.

I have notice, you seem to have harbor hatred toward HBs. Women through evolution learn this behavior in natural selection. They don't have control over what they are attracted to, it's coded in their genes. Just as guys don't find uglies and fat chicks attractive (of course there are bizarre exceptions). Expecting girls to pick nice guys is like expecting us guys to pick ugly chicks. Girls are more attracted to character while guys are more attracted to looks. Same game different style. You can't blame women and not recognize the fault in us men as well.

If we want to blame somebody, we should blame ourselves for not understanding the rules of the attraction game. Now that we do understand, we should go out and claim our share of the pu$sy pie.
 

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Originally posted by Swoop
Kevin, are you implying 30-35 yr old HBs would have trouble finding nice guys (AFC)? Because I don't think they do. At that age, they are still fairly attractive.

I have notice, you seem to have harbor hatred toward HBs. Women through evolution learn this behavior in natural selection. They don't have control over what they are attracted to, it's coded in their genes. Just as guys don't find uglies and fat chicks attractive (of course there are bizarre exceptions). Expecting girls to pick nice guys is like expecting us guys to pick ugly chicks. Girls are more attracted to character while guys are more attracted to looks. Same game different style. You can't blame women and not recognize the fault in us men as well.

If we want to blame somebody, we should blame ourselves for not understanding the rules of the attraction game. Now that we do understand, we should go out and claim our share of the pu$sy pie.

No I'm not trying to infer that 30-35 year old would have a hard time finding a nice guy. They do however have a problem finding nice guys who are successfull. I should of been a little more clear.

Most nice guys get the shaft in their early 20s, but when these men are successfull in their later years they suddenly become attractive (money is attractive to women).

Of course by that time the only thing he cares for in a woman is the way that she looks. That is mostly due to all the times he was rejected in his early 20s.

What I'm trying to point out is that a man with money IS attractive to a woman. Money is power. When you have money you can say to a woman, "look this is the way it is going to be!".

That is why you always see a bunch of old guys in nice cars with hot chicks. They are basicaly AFCs with one thing going for them.

I once worked for a guy that was very rich. He was a bit fat and ugly. The funny thing is he had a hot 21 year old girl in his office sometimes. I couldn't figure it out until someone told me that it was his girl friend. The sad thing is this guy also had a wife!

It just goes to show you that even if you are fat, ugly, and married. If you have money women will find that attractive.
 

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Originally posted by Swoop
Girls are more attracted to character while guys are more attracted to looks.

That is only true if the guy is just looking for sex. If the guy is looking for a LTR then character is important. For example, I would never consider a dirty slut to be relationship material. I would also never date a girl that did not show respect to me.

Most guys don't have a problem lowering their physical standards for a girl that has good character. The problem is the most women seem to think that we care how intelligent they are. The fact is we don't care about her education or if she has a career. What we care about is her character and how much respect she shows us.
 

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Well, being a 30+ year old, let me let you younger guys in on something. At around 32 or so, something happens, I don't know what. But what happened to me was that women started throwing themselves at me.

I'm f*cking serious, I get women on my arse all the time.

Women in their 30s who are desparate come on to me all the freaking time. These are the ones that went through their twenties thinking that no guy was good enough for them, and now find themselves alone.

But also, I've noticed the younger ones are either dead scared of me or are very interested as well.

Then there's this new phenomenon I've encountered with young girls 21-25 who have cheated on their respective boyfriends with me. Gotta love that one. At the drop of a hat, and they don't even break up with their boyfriends, or pursue you any further once they've had you. It's manifique!!

You guys will enjoy your 30s, whether you have alot of money or not, women will be all over the place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you think women will only go for rich guys, well get rich then.

When you're 40, we'll see if you were right :)
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Well, being a 30+ year old, let me let you younger guys in on something. At around 32 or so, something happens, I don't know what. But what happened to me was that women started throwing themselves at me.

I'm f*cking serious, I get women on my arse all the time.

Women in their 30s who are desparate come on to me all the freaking time. These are the ones that went through their twenties thinking that no guy was good enough for them, and now find themselves alone.

But also, I've noticed the younger ones are either dead scared of me or are very interested as well.

Then there's this new phenomenon I've encountered with young girls 21-25 who have cheated on their respective boyfriends with me. Gotta love that one. At the drop of a hat, and they don't even break up with their boyfriends, or pursue you any further once they've had you. It's manifique!!

You guys will enjoy your 30s, whether you have alot of money or not, women will be all over the place.
hats off to you!
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
If you think women will only go for rich guys, well get rich then.

When you're 40, we'll see if you were right :)
well I'm sure the older ugly ones that have been ****-ed too many damn times won't. But the hot girls with fake boobs will :)
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Well, being a 30+ year old, let me let you younger guys in on something. At around 32 or so, something happens, I don't know what. But what happened to me was that women started throwing themselves at me.

I'm f*cking serious, I get women on my arse all the time.

Women in their 30s who are desparate come on to me all the freaking time. These are the ones that went through their twenties thinking that no guy was good enough for them, and now find themselves alone.

But also, I've noticed the younger ones are either dead scared of me or are very interested as well.

Then there's this new phenomenon I've encountered with young girls 21-25 who have cheated on their respective boyfriends with me. Gotta love that one. At the drop of a hat, and they don't even break up with their boyfriends, or pursue you any further once they've had you. It's manifique!!

You guys will enjoy your 30s, whether you have alot of money or not, women will be all over the place.
Maybe it happened just to you. I have a friend who is 28. He's good looking and he has some understanding about attraction and some of the stuff we discuss here. However, he gets no action. No girls, nothing.
 
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