"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stumped for places to go on a hot date?

Inspector Clouseau

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There are times when the hot factor of a chick clouds your ability to think of where to go, so caught up in trying to not screw up, your mind draws a blank. One trick which dawned on me not long ago is instead of thinking where to take HER, you imagine where you'd take a totally unattractive even hideous woman if you were forced to take her out, like on a blind date from hell. Just mentally picture taking her out to various places, what and where would you feel comfortable?

Would you want to spend an hour in a coffee shop, talking face to face with her? No, that's among the last things you'd desire. Would taking her to a fine restaurant be fine with you? Not on your money no! (Besides, too romantic). You'd be inclined towards action dates, like go karts or bowling, anything which would eat up your attention, going to a movie not included.

This trick compels you to think outside the box and hopefully think of places around you that may otherwise not come to mind. After you find places you'd be comfortable going, simply import the hot chick and viola you now have problem solved.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Consent

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I basically like dates where there can be room for interaction without constant staring at each other face to face (like in a coffee shop or most restaurants).
I don't always go on "action" dates, but dates where we can both walk around and comment on the surroundings. It gives you more to work with.
 

Rudy_TubeSteak

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I live in a city/uni which is reknowned for its reef/marine biology scene.

Most of the international students here study marine biology or simply want to check out the scenery.

Solution: I bought a membership at this HUGE aquarium so I can take many HBs there whenever without having to fork out big money for admission fee.

The trick is show her something close and then apply light kino when leaning over for a close inspection ie hand on back or waist. Take pics n stuff too.

Well thats one idea I have anyway.
 
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