"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dominus

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This seems like the best place to post this, I guess. If any moderator can think of somewhere better, be my guest. I've noticed something weird. Around this time of year, the subject of winter, snow, and related activities comes up (skiing, snowboarding, etc.). I've never gone skiing, and whenever I tell a girl this, they go ballistic. "Oh my god! Come with me, I'm going this weekend yadda yadda." I feel like I'm on the verge of a good technique, but, unless ya lie, it can only be used a few times. Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can take up skating. Its cheap and after 1-2 times you can honestly say that you're learning and ask them to be your teacher.

Then this student/teacher relationship will evolve into something bigger. :D
 
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I saw so many hotties skiing last weekend and it was my first try. A bunch of them smiled at me as I wiped out, so don't worry!

I wish the place I went to had a bar, but it was a family oriented ski resort and I was busy with family in town so I didn't hit on girls at the time.
 
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