Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Play house, j/k there are lots of things go to the park and play frisbee, bowling, mini golf, roller rink, laser tag, paintball, go to your local zoo, even chuck e cheese. Its amazing how little kid activites can be so much fun. Sometimes it doesnt even matter where you go sometimes her just being with you is good enough.Originally posted by polaris_01
wot sorta stuff cud we do if she came 2 my house
mini golf is only good with a double date because if your just going with her your going against her if you go and go against other people you can have some major fun and get some action.Originally posted by AdrenalynJunkee
You need something that'll break the ice. If you have snow already, go sledding. If not, go to an arcade and act like little kids again, bumper cars, mini golf, etc. I think that shiz is fun.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
lol she denied you park, museum and zoo?Originally posted by polaris_01
i did ask her 2 go for a walkto this park but she didnt seem 2 like the idea or the museum and zoo since it costs a bit .ill ask her about ice skatin and try again with zoo/ museum/ park
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
who makes posts that give you a headache? polaris?Originally posted by Vincent
Ugh your posts give me a headache.
Originally posted by guitaronfire411
Use proper sentences. I hear they're popular.