That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just read that exact article. I dont buy all of the evolutionaty biotheory stuff, but there is some validity in there. I think alot of claims in that area of research are over-extrapolated. 'Evolutionary theory' is full of assumptions, and most hard-core proponents have a lot of views based on those assumptions.WestCoaster said:
As far as the article goes, I'd just like to repeat something I've said once before. Because I believe it applies here as well:Colossus said:
What are you saying?Victory Unlimited said:Is it just me, or have you noticed that many in the "scientific community" have even conveniently stopped calling it the "THEORY" of evolution, altogether...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Exactly. I have had several professors who teach it as scientific reality. They accept the SUGGESTIVE evidence for the evolution of life, and develop a cognitive block towards any conflicting viewpoints.Is it just me, or have you noticed that many in the "scientific community" have even conveniently stopped calling it the "THEORY" of evolution, altogether...
Evolution is a theory like gravity is a theory. Actually, gravity is a less believeable thory than evolution because no one has ever seen a graviton before. But we have seen evolution, and Darwin was just explaining the facts we already had in front of us.Victory Unlimited said:Is it just me, or have you noticed that many in the "scientific community" have even conveniently stopped calling it the "THEORY" of evolution, altogether...
You are not one of those "Creationist" nutcases are you???Victory Unlimited said:Is it just me, or have you noticed that many in the "scientific community" have even conveniently stopped calling it the "THEORY" of evolution, altogether...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is what laymen don't understand: there is no absolute truth is science.Colossus said:
Luthor Rex said:
Tell me more.Luthor Rex said:
I knew that remark was coming. I have my own views on the origins of life, but Im not going to place a label on it so the whole forum can flame away because it isnt congruent with their own views.MrLuvr said:
)She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So the men who had the hereditary tendency to become sterile at 50 died out in the stone age? While their fellows kept reproducing until 70?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.