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Study: Top 10 Best & Worst Cities for Dating

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According to Axe's nation wide study here are the results:

The Top Ten best and worst cities for the dating game are:

Top Ten Best Cities to Hook Up In
1. Austin, TX
2. Colorado Springs, CO
3. San Diego, CA
4. Raleigh/Durham, NC
5. Seattle, WA
6. Charleston, SC
7. Norfolk, VA
8. Ann Arbor, MI
9. Springfield, MA
10. Honolulu, HI

Top Ten Worst Cities to Hook Up In
1. Kansas City, MO
2. Wichita, KS
3. Minneapolis-St. Paul, MN
4. Detroit, MI
5. Louisville, KY
6. Greensboro/Winston-Salem, NC
7. Atlanta, GA
8. Pittsburgh, PA
9. Houston, TX
10. Charlotte, NC


I'm currently attending school in Austin Texas and am not surprised that it topped the list.

What does everyone else think about the list?


Here is a link to the article
http://biz.yahoo.com/prnews/040311/cgth060_1.html



Here is a link to the Axe site:
http://www.theaxeeffect.com/survey/

Here is the complete list:

Rank Name
1 Austin-San Marcos, TX
2 Colorado Springs, CO
3 San Diego, CA
4 Raleigh-Durham-Chapel Hill, NC
5 Seattle-Bellevue-Everett, WA
6 Charleston-North Charleston, SC
7 Norfolk-Virginia Beach-Newport News, VA-NC
8 Ann Arbor, MI
9 Springfield, MA
10 Honolulu, HI
11 Jersey City, NJ
12 Columbus, OH
13 Tacoma, WA
14 Columbia, SC
15 Portland-Vancouver, OR-WA
16 Denver, CO
17 Baton Rouge, LA
18 New York, NY
19 Oakland, CA
20 Providence-Fall River-Warwick, RI-MA
21 Phoenix-Mesa, AZ
22 Cincinnati, OH-KY-IN
23 Orlando, FL
24 Dayton-Springfield, OH
25 Akron, OH
26 Fresno, CA
27 Gary, IN
28 Toledo, OH
29 Tucson, AZ
30 Fort Worth-Arlington, TX
31 New Orleans, LA
32 Los Angeles-Long Beach, CA
33 Albany-Schenectady-Troy, NY
34 Baltimore, MD
35 Wilmington-Newark, DE-MD
36 Grand Rapids-Muskegon-Holland, MI
37 Omaha, NE-IA
38 San Francisco, CA
39 San Jose, CA
40 Sacramento, CA
41 Salt Lake City-Ogden, UT
42 Nashville, TN
43 Milwaukee-Waukesha, WI
44 Miami, FL
45 Oklahoma City, OK
46 Washington, DC-MD-VA-WV
47 Little Rock-North Little Rock, AR
48 Ventura, CA
49 Tampa-St. Petersburg-Clearwater, FL
50 Riverside-San Bernardino, CA
51 Dallas, TX
52 Las Vegas, NV-AZ
53 Jacksonville, FL
54 Syracuse, NY
55 Chicago, IL
56 McAllen-Edinburg-Mission, TX
57 San Antonio, TX
58 Fort Lauderdale, FL
59 Orange County, CA
60 Indianapolis, IN
61 Richmond-Petersburg, VA
62 Rochester, NY
63 Boston, MA-NH-ME
64 Philadelphia, PA-NJ
65 Albuquerque, NM
66 Memphis, TN-AR-MS
67 Cleveland-Lorain-Elyria, OH
68 Harrisburg-Lebanon-Carlisle, PA
69 St. Louis, MO-IL
70 Stockton-Lodi, CA
71 Charlotte-Gastonia-Rock Hill, NC-SC
72 Houston, TX
73 Pittsburgh, PA
74 Atlanta, GA
75 Greensboro-Winston-Salem-High Point, NC
76 Louisville, KY-IN
77 Detroit, MI
78 Minneapolis-St. Paul, MN-WI
79 Wichita, KS
80 Kansas City, MO-KS
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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CHarleston SC should be second on the list mass pu-nanny runnin around
 

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oh yeah and Ann arbor on th third
 

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Springfield, Mass. is No. 9?!? For hooking up?? Yeah, maybe with a prostitute or a toothless crack-mommy!

Springfield is not someplace to hang around after dark. The bars are for all the people that used to work in the factories that have closed. The hookers used to pace the street corners like they owned downtown. Hmm, maybe the place has changed in the last ten years, but probably not.

How strange that they didn't look 25 miles north of Springfield at Amherst and Northampton, Mass. With over 30,000 college students, that's where all the singles action _really_ is.

The survey needs work.
 

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Not surprised

All the top cities are big college towns...no surprise there.
The title is a bit misleading....unless whoever conducted the pool thinks that 'hooking-up' and 'dating' are synonymous. I don't. Maybe this pool should be renamed "easiest cities to get laid in."
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Re: Not surprised

Originally posted by Ol'BlueEyes
All the top cities are big college towns...no surprise there.
The title is a bit misleading....unless whoever conducted the pool thinks that 'hooking-up' and 'dating' are synonymous. I don't. Maybe this pool should be renamed "easiest cities to get laid in."
what he said
 

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Pittsburgh is a blast. I speakfirst hand. It does have alot of old people and it isnt very diverse. I dont care about any of that. It has my demographic. It also has a good amount of them. Pitt has 40000 students plus 4 other college or universities are located here. The survey was terrible. Probably run by some AFC and female AFC's who never went out anywhere.
 

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Well that sucks.....

At least now I can explain my lack of success on the city I live in!

(By the way, I live in Kansas City)
 

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Never been down to Colorado Springs to hook up, I'll have to check it out. Denver has got to be one of the worst places, I've heard the same from many people who moved here from different states.
 

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Here we have Florida State and FAMU. It's a pretty tight place to hook up. The clubs get packed with females.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm suprised Boston ranked so low. Can't be possible, Boston is the biggest college town in the country with over 1 in 5 residents being students during the school hear. Boston also has one of the youngest average ages of all cities.
 

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Atlanta is actually a great city for dating. Especially if you like black chicks. There are plenty of hot ones here.
 

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I think this study is a load of sh**, it was conducted by the people at AXE deodorant spray. I'm sure they have some agenda.
 

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San Diego,CA is number 3 on the list? What a load of crapo! SD is dead..as in you can walk around SD for hours and not see one pretty girl!
 

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Originally posted by Genghis Juan
I'm suprised Boston ranked so low. Can't be possible, Boston is the biggest college town in the country with over 1 in 5 residents being students during the school hear. Boston also has one of the youngest average ages of all cities.
hmm.. well our clubs are somewhat weak. I am real curious as to their reasoning. Also boston sucks if you are under 21.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Viking25
San Diego,CA is number 3 on the list? What a load of crapo! SD is dead..as in you can walk around SD for hours and not see one pretty girl!
Woah u serious about that? I'm seriousely considering moving there by next year. I am going to check it out first. But, I'm surprized there would be no hot chicks there.
 

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Originally posted by MisterAl
Springfield, Mass. is No. 9?!? For hooking up?? Yeah, maybe with a prostitute or a toothless crack-mommy!

Springfield is not someplace to hang around after dark. The bars are for all the people that used to work in the factories that have closed. The hookers used to pace the street corners like they owned downtown. Hmm, maybe the place has changed in the last ten years, but probably not.

How strange that they didn't look 25 miles north of Springfield at Amherst and Northampton, Mass. With over 30,000 college students, that's where all the singles action _really_ is.

The survey needs work.
Hahahahaha, I'm with you on this one...Springfield is a ghetto...
 

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Originally posted by Jvesti
hmm.. well our clubs are somewhat weak. I am real curious as to their reasoning. Also boston sucks if you are under 21.
OUr clubs aren't weak...We have the biggest nightclub in the country when Avaland is going on...Boston is one of the best bar/club cities in the country...not sure why that doesn't translate to good dating...
 

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Originally posted by Jvesti
hmm.. well our clubs are somewhat weak. I am real curious as to their reasoning. Also boston sucks if you are under 21.
The clubs on Landsdowne Street are nothing special, but are usually 18 or 19+ and packed with Wellesley girls who haven't seen a guy in weeks. Picking them up is so easy it's not even fun anymore.

Foggy Goggle in Back Bay is another good underage bar.
 

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Pittsburgh does have lots of good looking girls, but, there seems to be a huge spread between the super hot ones and the bad ones. And another terrible trend seems to be that the 8.5's-9's all seem to love the coke( not soda). Many times Ive gone out with my buddy(who is into that game) and we walked out of the club with incredible looking girls that wanted to party(coke). The average girls that seem like LTR material have all been taken and are just hanging out with their single beast friends. LOL
 
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