"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Study shows that Men and women are reversing views
- Thread starter chiyeung
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RSanders219
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Kenny Powers
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The relationship questions kinda makes sense since guys in LTRs can get really clingy and make their life all about that one girl (sigh). The girl on the other hand prob still gets hit on a lot and thus doesn't get quite as much out of the relationship.
Also who are these men (23% in survey) who don't think time with guy friends is important. My friend is in an ltr with this girl and def has oneitis, they're really into each other, and he does lots of girly/lame stuff with her, but he always insists that he hangs out with his guy friends, even though she sometimes gets really upset when he does.
I'm skeptical about a lot of this survey. Where was it taken AFC-ville?
I use this stuff against them. I tell chicks so many lies that I can't keep them all straight! In the end I usually end up deflowering some college chick and giving myself "air high-fives" as I walk around the next day. I am writing a book about my last five years of this lifestyle.
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's as if our lives are not real and the only reality we know is what comes off the tv, movies, magazines, facebook, youtube, and this study you've conjured up.
Do you know why they spends multi millions of dollars in advertisments? To sell their products, messages and subliminal messages. They don't care if it ruins your life, your family or the culture of a country as long as they profit off you and at the same time forward their agenda.
Even though you maybe indoctrinated, brainwashed by the media and given your power, control away to women.... Make a decision right now to run your own life by taking 100% responsibility for everything in your life. If you do that, then power rests in your hands and not in the hands of women or the media.
It is far more pleasant to be a single independent young girl than a a single desperate guy.
Look around a club...happy women everywhere enjoying life meanwhile guys standing in the corner, sipping mariconada and being bored, slightly angry and frustrated.
The same goes for work. Meanwhile guy feels obliged to study something hard in order to get a good job, girls study whatever bs they want, get some nonsense job in nonsense departement and basically enjoying life, travelling, skipping jobs and being on the look out for the wealthy prince to make them pregnant in their 40s. Meanwhile spending the money on themselves in form of shoes and booze. And using players like walking dildos....that is us guys.
The pill and prosperity took out the responsibility from people.
Solution? I don't have any. Just do what you feel is right and look for the rare example of good wife or whatever.