"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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study: sex w ex is common

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http://living.msn.com/love-relation...ost?post=2a319595-30b8-43cd-af64-1ef6219b8f20

For many young adults, "ex sex" is just part of the breakup process. At least that's what a new study from Lucas County, Ohio has found.

Researchers collected data on 792 "emerging adults" between the ages of 17 to 24. All had been in a relationship in the past two years, and the study authors found that nearly half (44 percent) had hooked up with an ex post-breakup.

Researchers and relationship experts agree—post-breakup sex is a bad idea. In an article in the Journal of Adolescent Research, the study's authors wrote:
"Those who stay in contact following a breakup continue to feel the pain of the breakup more intensely and may have more difficulty moving on. Previous research found that college students who had sex with their exes mostly described this as a 'difficult or negative event.'"​



 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt said:
http://living.msn.com/love-relation...ost?post=2a319595-30b8-43cd-af64-1ef6219b8f20

"Those who stay in contact following a breakup continue to feel the pain of the breakup more intensely and may have more difficulty moving on. Previous research found that college students who had sex with their exes mostly described this as a 'difficult or negative event.'"​
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Which is why No Contact is a solid tool to those of us that use it and don't pretend the idea of it has fallen on deaf ears.
 
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No doubt it's common.

For the guy who just got dumped, it's his only chance for pvssy in his current state. He puts all his time and effort into it. I bet if they did a B/C analysis of the time put into gaming an ex vs. the time spent getting a new girl, it'd be a big eye opener.

Not to mention this 'emotional' crap only applies to him as well. The girl who did the dumping can ride him, get herself off, then go on the next day with no guilt or 'slvtty' feelings about it. Not much else than a live dildo for her.

Pretty common sense, but they leave out the details.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Going back for sex is a weak mans move. Guys my agin college who have dated a girl for two years and then see it end have to man up and face the drought that awaits them. They likely have limited game but will need to focus on it during the drought until they get fresh *****. During that time all the girls they approached and flirted with will make his ex a distant memory.
 
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