"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Study says muscular guys get more women than skinny .

TheVirtualMind

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Paradox, no "looks" threads allowed...

Thread Closed.

*Tries button, finds out it doesn't work*

Damn you and your "Senior Mod" status!

Well, it was kind of obvious that chicks would like the most "sculpted" male. Makes them feel safer and more secure. Plus, the word "commitment" probably helped a lot too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dammit, you're breaking your own rules, Paradox

And correlation does not mean causation -- First rule of statistics. Compared to DJs, these researchers have completely LIMITED AND INFERIOR knowledge of female attraction. They're probably all AFCs who are still plugged into the Matrix. Of course they're going to draw infantile conclusions like this.
 

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A couple of points....

1. No Shyt

2. When people say "looks dont matter", they either (wrongfully) try to make u feel good; OR the wiser ones truly mean that you don't need to be 6'3'' 5% body fat, perfect skin, flawless hair (or flawlessly bald)....... no, if there are things u cannot change dont try to... BUT as one wise man named player supreme said, "you should always try to look as good as u can". Look your personal best because you are worth it.

3. Do not listen to what snow plowman said. Man, the original poster did not contend that "every single fit man can pull pyssy more effectively than every single out-of-shape man"...He did not say that, so do not interpret it as such. U give me a random fat slob or a 80lb anorexic mofo, and take Channing Tatum look a like and tell me who will be more effective. We are speaking on average, u know.
 

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speakeasy said:
Whatever works for you dude, but I associate that look with either gay or extreme metrosexual.

I wanted to rep you for that but I have to spread it around some first. But yeah, that's exactly what I thought too.
 

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ryannath said:
http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/...wny-guys_N.htm


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Muscular men really do get the girls more often than their less brawny brothers ? at least in the short term, research suggests.
The well-muscled are twice as likely to have more sex partners, flings and affairs than those with less toned and chiseled physiques. But in the end, the research suggests, women tend to choose the less buff for long-lasting love.

Women choose musclemen for brief liaisons, but the less burly appear more desirable for long-term relationships because women believe they're more faithful and romantic. The brawny were seen as more domineering and volatile.

"If a man is interested in long-term relationships, maybe he shouldn't spend so much time at the gym," says Martie Haselton, an associate professor at the University of California-Los Angeles and co-author of the research. The study will be published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin in August.

Haselton and David Frederick, a UCLA graduate student in psychology, conducted six studies from 2002 to 2006 in which they analyzed responses about muscularity and sexual partners from a total of 788 college students ? 509 women and 279 heterosexual men.

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Some of the UCLA studies used photographs of men ranging from slender to brawny and asked heterosexual men to report on the muscular features of their own body type and their sexual relationships. Men who were more muscular than average had twice the number of sex partners, flings and affairs with women who had a boyfriend as those of average or below average muscularity.

The research also compared the men's responses with women's tallies of their sexual encounters and the muscularity of their short- and long-term partners. Sixty-one percent reported that their short-term partners were more muscular than their long-term partners.

Steven Gangestad, a psychology professor at the University of New Mexico in Albuquerque who was not involved in the UCLA study, says the research may well be the first to correlate muscularity with sexual prowess.

"Certainly, the study confirms what I believe are people's suspicions: that men who are more fit and more muscular are indeed seen as more attractive."

So most girls want a guy with jacked fibras for a quick fvck, affair, one nighter and want a skinny puss guy to control and raise their kids while they fvck musclebound guys.

lol
Hmm... I SEA what you did there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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