"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Study Says: Ginseng Good for Sex

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A fairly recent study shows that people with low libido/erection problems taking red (korean) ginseng show a marked improvement:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/...ve&db=PubMed&list_uids=12394711&dopt=Abstract

Of course, there is the placebo effect, and the fact that many 'ginseng' products are frauds, and the study involves a fairly small sample, but 60% is pretty impressive and hard to take. Even Viagra is 80%, and I've never heard of people dying of heart attacks from ginseng.

I've been feeling prety sexually low as of late, so in the name of science (of course), I will starting taking red ginseng, half as a red ginseng pill dissolved in tea and half in pill form. I'll let you know what happens.

I feel pretty good about this. After all, the Chinese have been taking ginseng for 2,000 years, and look how many of them there are (Kidding! Kidding!).

P.S. if the link doesn't work, here a link to the wikipedia page I found that on: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ginseng
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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deadlifts are even better for your sex drive, and besides, they're deadlifts. like sex, w/o the cuddling afterwards.
 

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do the warboss alex method also known as poor man's ginseng. eat a couple of steaks and then grab her by the hair and caveman her to bed.
 

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MindOverMatter said:
do the warboss alex method also known as poor man's ginseng. eat a couple of steaks and then grab her by the hair and caveman her to bed.
ding ding ding! we have a winner!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, after a few days the effects were easily felt. I had more energy, les nervousness, and my erections were firmer than they'd been in months. Soon, the ginseng, vitamins, and hormones began to battle my nervousness and fear. It was pretty much an even contest.

Last night, sex with my girlfriend went off much better than I had expected. Although the first time I came rather quickly (mostly, I think, due to my continued nervousness) the refractory period was very short and I lasted much longer the second time. It was a good feeling.
 
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