"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Study proves most prefer self-esteem boost over sex

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd rather get a great job then sex anyday for now lol. and I'm in college.
 

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That's all self-reported. Study doesn't prove a damn thing. Usually when my self-esteem is through the roof I get more sex. So sign me up for more of it.
 

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Kenny Powers said:
This is PATHETIC

For once I don't even know what to say :(
I don't find this surprising, or pathetic at all.
90% of the stuff you learn on hear is inner game stuff, isn't it?
It's all about the inner game stuff. Which is self esteem stuff.
So I'm not at all surprised people want the self esteem boost.

If they said this just about women, no one would be surprised. Women are known to what the ego boost. But men supposedly think with their penises. I think guys want the self esteem boost almost as much. When you have a mega hot girl on your arm, there's a big ego boost, isn't there?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That's all self-reported. Study doesn't prove a damn thing. Usually when my self-esteem is through the roof I get more sex. So sign me up for more of it.
No problem. Join the gym and make progress. Make more money, get a job you like and be successful.

Also, get some hobbies that you find fulfilling and be awesome at those.



Follow that, and you will get more self-esteem.
 

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Last year I swore off women and decided to pull myself out of debt. Now I'm poised to earn a steady second income that hopefully will rival my first by the end of the year. Trust me, my self esteem has been at record highs lately. I could give a **** less what anyone has to say about me in the real world, because most of them are pissing and moaning and ain't doing **** about their problems. I did something about one of mine, now I'm working on the next one.
 

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Usually when my self-esteem is through the roof I get more sex. So sign me up for more of it.
Yeah, it's like if you're on a desert island.
Would you rather have a fish or a fishing kit?
 
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