"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Study Finds Smiling Men are Less Attractive to Women

Do you think this is true?


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zekko

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This study has been discussed many times. It was conducted by showing PICTURES to women. First off, take a look at what a goof this guy in the picture looks like when he was smiling.

It's one thing to look at a picture of someone smiling. It's another thing for a man's eyes to meet a woman, and smile AT HER, flooding her with warmth. So until they conduct a study where they test if a woman likes to be smiled at by a man, I can't put too much stock in this.

I might also add that one of the "featured articles" at the top of the page here is "The Secret to Being Almost Completely Irresistible to Women". According to that article, the secret is to smile. So where is the truth?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MillionBillionaire

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In the book "the Game" Mystery says the most important thing about a man when he enters the room is his smile.

I agree... is the smile fake? Does he have a nervous laugh along with it? Or does he OWN HIS SMILE LIKE A BOSS.

Own it. Your smile.
 
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