Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Study: American Women Second Least Flirtatious; Spanish Women On Top!

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A recent study was done by the site Badoo.com which ranked which women are more flirtatious.

Spanish women came out on top with Poland, and the Dominican republic came in second and third respectfully. My country, Canada, came in 9th over-all. While the States edged out Ecuador for 19th place.

WORLD FLIRTATION LEAGUE
RANK COUNTRY SCORE*
1 Spain 1.33
2 Poland 1.31
3 Dominican Republic 1.25
4.= Italy 1.13
4.= Argentina 1.13
6 Brazil 1.12
7 Chile 1.09
8 Portugal 1.04
9 Canada 0.96
10 Venezuela 0.94
11 Netherlands 0.86
12 Germany 0.81
13 Colombia 0.80
14 United Kingdom 0.78
15 Czech Republic 0.76
16 Mexico 0.72
17 France 0.69
18 Belgium 0.68
19 United States 0.63
20 Ecuador 0.62

• Explanation: “Score” means the number of contacts per month initiated by the average woman in that country. So, Spain’s score of 1.33 means that the average Spanish woman initiates 1.33 contacts with a man per month.

http://blog.badoo.com/flirtation-study-names-u-s-women-worlds-least-flirtatious-almost-only-ecuadors-women-fl/
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I saw that too in the NY Post. Not surprised at all.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
I saw that too in the NY Post. Not surprised at all.
I am only surprised that there is a "World Flirtation League." It sounds like an awesome sport. Or at least a team of sexy superheroes.
 

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yea dominicanas are right on top. i am dominican myself and these *****es here in NYC are no joke.
 

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Flirting still doesn't guarantee any action... When are they gonna do a poll on who puts out the most!!!!

lol..

Naaah... Good and interesting find. I bet there's a correlation between our modern "pop culture" (The trampy celebs, jersey shore..etc...) and how inviting and flirty our women are. These days, they don't have to anything excet breathe, and they know it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't believe polls! Italian females ARE NOT. My GOD! Czech girls are SO MUCH more friendly. And they are way below the Italians in this B.S. American poll. Italian females are closed off. Hard to get to know. I lived 16 months in Italy without a date with ANY Italian girl! Within a month in Latvia I was dating gorgeous girls. The first hour in Latvia I had girls looking at me. Not normal girls either. Stunning girls.

Here comes a shocker! Would be easier for me to get a date in America than Italy. I mean that. Ask Italian guys (those who live in Italy). That is why they all go to Latvia, Prague, Czech Republic, and Ukraine.

Brazil is also NOT correct. Maybe some favela creature, but not the pretty girls. Much like Brazil is a country of contrasts (I saw more natural blondes there than I do in California), it is also a country of different types of people. Few people samba, few people dress in tiny bikinis, etc. All horrible stereotypes.

The top list would be
Ukraine - :eek: I dare you to disagree with that pic. They may be shy, but you get the idea! Just go visit the tons of youtube videos where American guys are talking to Ukraine girls. Hell, Winston Wu already dated the entire country :confused: .
Latvia
Estonia
Bulgaria
Russia - Away from the center Moscow.

Funny how the above listed "top" countries in MY POLL have the most gorgeous girls on earth.

Remember, the American media is not going to report the truth. What if guys knew they could date young ladies that they jerk off to? What if they knew those girls would treat them with respect and want to take care of them? That doesn't jive with what America wants you to believe! Hell, Americans still support wars in places they can't find on a map!

If Italy is so great (what a joke) why are all the Italian middle-aged Momma's boys wanting to visit places like Latvia?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCdFSb-hY7c&feature=fvw
Yeah, unlike American reports...Italian guys in their 30's live as 12 year old American boys do. In other words, Luigi is "moy brat...moy drug"!

Here is a tip. Write this down. Minsk. Just write that down. Eventually, Minsk will open up to the West. As of now, it is almost impossible to visit for a Westerner. When it opens I will be there! Oh yes. That is the future. Just write it down. Belarus will be MINE :woo:
 

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Good stuff Jimbo. People always lie in these polls. For example there was a poll not too long ago that said the Spanish have more sex than any other nationality in Europe yet they have one of the lowest birth rates!

You just can't trust relationship related polls. It's like asking women what they want and them saying they want a nice guy but instead always date a**holes.
 

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BigJimbo said:
The top list would be
Ukraine -
Now THERE'S a shock.

Funny how the above listed "top" countries in MY POLL have the most gorgeous girls on earth.
Your poll? You didn't post "your poll" so why should anyone listen to anything you say?

In other words, Luigi is "moy brat...moy drug"!
Is that some attempt at an ethnic slur? What are you even trying to say?

Here is a tip. Write this down. Minsk. Just write that down. Eventually, Minsk will open up to the West. As of now, it is almost impossible to visit for a Westerner. When it opens I will be there! Oh yes. That is the future. Just write it down. Belarus will be MINE :woo:
I could get a non-stop flight from LA to Minsk for $950 within 5 minutes. Yeah, definitely an almost impossible feat to go to Minsk.
 

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Want to make sure this is right..The best country where the women are most outgoing is Ukraine and Latvia...You guys know this from personal experience?
 

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f283000 said:
Good stuff Jimbo. People always lie in these polls. For example there was a poll not too long ago that said the Spanish have more sex than any other nationality in Europe yet they have one of the lowest birth rates!

You just can't trust relationship related polls. It's like asking women what they want and them saying they want a nice guy but instead always date a**holes.

It wasn't taken from a poll where they asked the women anything. They were compiling the statistics by tracking the number of times women made first contact. Asking people for information is a poor way to conduct research, however it's not the only way.

For example if you ask women if they are safe drivers, most will say yes, and may even insinuate(or flat out say) that it's sexist to suggest otherwise. If you collected information from police reports, insurance companies, marketing companies, or statistics companies(these are usually employed by the former two) then you'll likely get a different, yet more accurate answer.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is that some attempt at an ethnic slur? What are you even trying to say?

he's saying My brother, My friend мои брат мои друг

I could get a non-stop flight from LA to Minsk for $950 within 5 minutes. Yeah, definitely an almost impossible feat to go to Minsk.[/QUOTE]
 

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BigJimbo said:
The top list would be
Ukraine - :eek: I dare you to disagree with that pic. They may be shy, but you get the idea! Just go visit the tons of youtube videos where American guys are talking to Ukraine girls. Hell, Winston Wu already dated the entire country :confused: .
Latvia
Estonia
Bulgaria
Russia - Away from the center Moscow.

Funny how the above listed "top" countries in MY POLL have the most gorgeous girls on earth.

Remember, the American media is not going to report the truth. What if guys knew they could date young ladies that they jerk off to? What if they knew those girls would treat them with respect and want to take care of them? That doesn't jive with what America wants you to believe! Hell, Americans still support wars in places they can't find on a map!
Is it possible for an american to find a job in eastern europe or CIS?

How do these playboys maintain themselves there?

I have some money but it's not enough for my whole lifetime, and I don't want to just do nothing all the time...
 

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omkara said:
Is it possible for an american to find a job in eastern europe or CIS?

How do these playboys maintain themselves there?

I have some money but it's not enough for my whole lifetime, and I don't want to just do nothing all the time...
A buddy of mine taught English in Poland for a year. You can also get a second job at a bar or something.
 

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omkara said:
Is it possible for an american to find a job in eastern europe or CIS?

How do these playboys maintain themselves there?
The guys that go to eastern europe for love are usually guys that are well off afcs (engineers, computer programers etc).

The one place you can go to if you don't have money is asia. Anybody can teach english in Asia and earn a middle class income (in asian standards) and most jobs just require a BA degree (a lot of places don't)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BigJimbo said:
Don't believe polls! Italian females ARE NOT. My GOD! Czech girls are SO MUCH more friendly. And they are way below the Italians in this B.S. American poll. Italian females are closed off. Hard to get to know. I lived 16 months in Italy without a date with ANY Italian girl! Within a month in Latvia I was dating gorgeous girls. The first hour in Latvia I had girls looking at me. Not normal girls either. Stunning girls.

Here comes a shocker! Would be easier for me to get a date in America than Italy. I mean that. Ask Italian guys (those who live in Italy). That is why they all go to Latvia, Prague, Czech Republic, and Ukraine.

Brazil is also NOT correct. Maybe some favela creature, but not the pretty girls. Much like Brazil is a country of contrasts (I saw more natural blondes there than I do in California), it is also a country of different types of people. Few people samba, few people dress in tiny bikinis, etc. All horrible stereotypes.

The top list would be
Ukraine - :eek: I dare you to disagree with that pic. They may be shy, but you get the idea! Just go visit the tons of youtube videos where American guys are talking to Ukraine girls. Hell, Winston Wu already dated the entire country :confused: .
Latvia
Estonia
Bulgaria
Russia - Away from the center Moscow.

Funny how the above listed "top" countries in MY POLL have the most gorgeous girls on earth.

Remember, the American media is not going to report the truth. What if guys knew they could date young ladies that they jerk off to? What if they knew those girls would treat them with respect and want to take care of them? That doesn't jive with what America wants you to believe! Hell, Americans still support wars in places they can't find on a map!

If Italy is so great (what a joke) why are all the Italian middle-aged Momma's boys wanting to visit places like Latvia?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCdFSb-hY7c&feature=fvw
Yeah, unlike American reports...Italian guys in their 30's live as 12 year old American boys do. In other words, Luigi is "moy brat...moy drug"!

Here is a tip. Write this down. Minsk. Just write that down. Eventually, Minsk will open up to the West. As of now, it is almost impossible to visit for a Westerner. When it opens I will be there! Oh yes. That is the future. Just write it down. Belarus will be MINE :woo:
Calm down BJ. You can quit giving yourself a reach around now. I've been to Italy before and met many friendly, gorgeous Italian women.

Did it ever cross your alleged mind that they weren't interested in you, period?

You may now resume auto self-fellatio BJ.
 

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Calm down BJ. You can quit giving yourself a reach around now. I've been to Italy before and met many friendly, gorgeous Italian women.

Did it ever cross your alleged mind that they weren't interested in you, period?

You may now resume auto self-fellatio BJ.

You mean you don't believe the "poll" he took in his own head? :rock: :rolleyes:
 
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