Recently Ive been eyeing prettier and prettier women, ive increased my expectation levels on what kind of women, i shud get and deserve. But Ive come to notice that the prettier woman, the harder they are to approach bcuz they dont give me the buying signs that most other women will. They tend to ignore you and not look your way, they tend to look around and avoid eye contact and their body language will be very hostile and not friendly. Almost all of them have this attiude and body language thats mocking you "ha, you cant have me, im super good, im a princess." You feel like an air of stuckupness near and around them, they almost act as if your the plague or the next virus. Very few pretty women will smile and be open and outgoing, unless ur bulit like a machine and wear tight shirts and are 6 feet tall and look good and have muscles buldging. Personally I prefer white woman based soley on sexual attraction, then spanish/indian/asian women then black women.
Im indian. So there are a few questions I need to ask now.
1) First why do women, good looking women of any race make it difficult to approach, why do they have that attitude that i described in my post.
2) Im indian and not the most good looking guy, im okay, im not bad but im not delusional either. Now being Indian and only 150 lbs and being 5'10", how good are my chances of getting the white women that i desire so much, or any race, the pretty women the ones 9-10 hbs, the ones with the attiutde i described above. Basically, im asking, that i realli not built, im not tall, im not white, and my self esteem and confidence and my persoanlity arent that great nowhere near the dj levels i need to be at. The fact that im not built, not white, and not good looking kills the self esteem, and I am naturally a pessimitic and my persoanlity is dry so that even brings it down worse. So approaching these hb's is very challenging to me cuz of my bad self esteem. Now does not being built, white and tall, and good looking affect my chance with getting these hot women, esp the hot snobish white women ( Ilike them cuz they are a challenge). IF it doesnt affect my chances then that gives me more confidence, then all i have to worry about is my perosanlity and my inner alphaness, if all they care about is ur inner game, but if being indian and not built and not hot, cuts me down big time, then i got some work to do. Such as working on my muslces and working on my inner game till its almost near perfection. I know i might be placing too much emhpasis on the woman, and i shud be working out for myself not for women. But I feel like i dont even have a fighting chance compared to the white, tall, built, good ,looking guys. I wanna know if im just wasting my time and spinning my tires. when i dont have all those quaitles, mainly im not white. Do white women find men of other races attractive, or do they have a natural pull toward white men.
3) What can i do so that the attitude that the gurls have from every race, which i described in the main post and question 1 isnt there anymore. Or if it will always stay, what can i do to my inner game to not be phased by it and apporach anyway.
IM realli upset, cuz pretty gurls dont give me much eye contact and they always seem hostile toward me, they prob only do that to ppl they dont like and opne themselves up to those they think are hot. I also try to walk as confident as i can, i carry myself high and i dress well too, express and i groom myself well too. I am clam and i remain cool, and i try not impress women, but it seems not to be working. its like an invinsible barreir they have
thx guys
Im indian. So there are a few questions I need to ask now.
1) First why do women, good looking women of any race make it difficult to approach, why do they have that attitude that i described in my post.
2) Im indian and not the most good looking guy, im okay, im not bad but im not delusional either. Now being Indian and only 150 lbs and being 5'10", how good are my chances of getting the white women that i desire so much, or any race, the pretty women the ones 9-10 hbs, the ones with the attiutde i described above. Basically, im asking, that i realli not built, im not tall, im not white, and my self esteem and confidence and my persoanlity arent that great nowhere near the dj levels i need to be at. The fact that im not built, not white, and not good looking kills the self esteem, and I am naturally a pessimitic and my persoanlity is dry so that even brings it down worse. So approaching these hb's is very challenging to me cuz of my bad self esteem. Now does not being built, white and tall, and good looking affect my chance with getting these hot women, esp the hot snobish white women ( Ilike them cuz they are a challenge). IF it doesnt affect my chances then that gives me more confidence, then all i have to worry about is my perosanlity and my inner alphaness, if all they care about is ur inner game, but if being indian and not built and not hot, cuts me down big time, then i got some work to do. Such as working on my muslces and working on my inner game till its almost near perfection. I know i might be placing too much emhpasis on the woman, and i shud be working out for myself not for women. But I feel like i dont even have a fighting chance compared to the white, tall, built, good ,looking guys. I wanna know if im just wasting my time and spinning my tires. when i dont have all those quaitles, mainly im not white. Do white women find men of other races attractive, or do they have a natural pull toward white men.
3) What can i do so that the attitude that the gurls have from every race, which i described in the main post and question 1 isnt there anymore. Or if it will always stay, what can i do to my inner game to not be phased by it and apporach anyway.
IM realli upset, cuz pretty gurls dont give me much eye contact and they always seem hostile toward me, they prob only do that to ppl they dont like and opne themselves up to those they think are hot. I also try to walk as confident as i can, i carry myself high and i dress well too, express and i groom myself well too. I am clam and i remain cool, and i try not impress women, but it seems not to be working. its like an invinsible barreir they have
thx guys
Simple eye contact with you can signal they want you to talk to them. Contrary to popular belief, it is the woman who usually gives the first signal, and that signal is usually eye contact, so you will know when to approach. You already know for a fact that hot girls don't stare at just anyone. Making prolonged eye contact until she looks away is good, but you have learned that not all girls make eye contact or smile or anything like that. If she looks away immediately, don't give up right then. Watch her out of the corner of your eye to see if she looks back at you, and THEN you know she is giving you a chance, by the second glance she gives you. A lot of girls are simply shy as well, so they will most likely look away quick and look at the ground probably, but will sneak another glance. The bad sign is if they look away (NOT at the ground as a shy girl does, but to the side) immediately. I tell you all this so you feel more confident approaching the girls, because if you get a good sign from her, you should feel confident. You should feel confident anyway, but being able to read body language is important, just like having conversation skills. Your inner game MUST be solid before you can really put things together. Inner game basically makes your outer game. Have the confidence, control, care-free attitude, etc., and you will never need any complicated "techniques", you will find yourself automatically doing the right things.