Stuck in the ljbf zone forever?

[leeman67]

any hope? She sent me this email recently. Been in the friends zone since collge.



Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know
they are always there. Keep them close!! Cindy

 

[Unregistered]

That's like 15 + years in the friend zone?? Wow.

Good luck.

 

[leeman67]

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Well. We have not been in physical contact since collge, but have always stayed in contct via phone, letters and emails. I probably know her as well as most of the women I have dated. We seem to be on the same wave length. She is an amature model. Never been married. currently single. Our careers have made it difficlt to get together. She and I are planning a vacation together next summer which shocked me. Dont have the faintest clue where this is going. My best friend says its in my destiny to marry her.. LOL. I dont feel his optimism. But who knows.

 

[ScrewIt]

when was the last time you spoke to her?

sounds like she's trying to confirm and validate the friendship...in other words seeing if you're still on the same grounds to continue being friends. It's a "greeting email" at the same time with a statement.

just write back

 

[wind20mph]

its a forwarded email.

My opinion is that you have to reply and flirt more. Tease her. Be a challenge, be interesting.

Send some lines with inner meaning. Like...

I was thinking about your email... Should I put you on the stars and watch you up there or should Ihug you for that?

or

Thanks! Now get down here and give me a hug.

Don't dwell on it. Play and flirt.