TheBaconator
Senior Don Juan
I'm not speaking in regard to going out and banging the hottest chicks. But for LTR I must say that my experiences have led me to the conclusion that the best gals usually start off as friends. Hear me out fellas.
Just something i've been thinking about. From my experiences the only great LTR's i've had were with chicks I started out as friends with. Let me add though, the reason we started as friends was because either my pursuits were denied or they had a BF when I met them. Instead of being a total **** and just disregarding them as a failure, I got to know them a lot better, as they did me, and by the time we ended up getting together (which despite what some may say does happen quite often if you two are compatible personalities) we were so in tuned with one another that the relationship was great.
But i'd say there are some important things that must be done to achieve this. First, she should find you physically attractive. This is almost impossible to change unless your appearance changes dramatically. She could think you are the biggest AFC in the world, doesn't matter, she will be even more taken when you grow on her into a man. You must click personality wise, this is even more important then the physical. And finally, you must show balls, you must show her that you don't care that you can't have her, but you do appreciate her company. And finally, be funny, chicks love humor.
I'd say this advice is for the younger fellas as i'm only 22 myself and still have a lot to learn. But to you young guys who are AFC and think there is no hope because all you have is girl friends instead of girlfriends, there is, just have patience, work on yourself, and if you and her are right, odds are it will happen in time.
Stay positive fellas, the darkest hour is only 60 minutes.
Just something i've been thinking about. From my experiences the only great LTR's i've had were with chicks I started out as friends with. Let me add though, the reason we started as friends was because either my pursuits were denied or they had a BF when I met them. Instead of being a total **** and just disregarding them as a failure, I got to know them a lot better, as they did me, and by the time we ended up getting together (which despite what some may say does happen quite often if you two are compatible personalities) we were so in tuned with one another that the relationship was great.
But i'd say there are some important things that must be done to achieve this. First, she should find you physically attractive. This is almost impossible to change unless your appearance changes dramatically. She could think you are the biggest AFC in the world, doesn't matter, she will be even more taken when you grow on her into a man. You must click personality wise, this is even more important then the physical. And finally, you must show balls, you must show her that you don't care that you can't have her, but you do appreciate her company. And finally, be funny, chicks love humor.
I'd say this advice is for the younger fellas as i'm only 22 myself and still have a lot to learn. But to you young guys who are AFC and think there is no hope because all you have is girl friends instead of girlfriends, there is, just have patience, work on yourself, and if you and her are right, odds are it will happen in time.
Stay positive fellas, the darkest hour is only 60 minutes.
