"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's a very popular belief you have legend, but I beg to differ. One night stands are a dime a dozen. Getting to know a chick and then ****ing her, unless the getting to know her is ruse, usually leads to something more than a "one night stand", getting to know her after you two banged (and NOT before) rarely seems to amount to much (except for a glorified fvck buddy).....IME.
Noted, and agreed in part.

Even with hard sex escalation, ONSs don't happen the majority of the time. My operandi is sexual escalation first; deeper rapport second. However, I agree insofar as with some girls, this stratagem can backfire; while with others, yours can be crippling.

Being fluid in accordance with the targets' needs is best policy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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