“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's a very popular belief you have legend, but I beg to differ. One night stands are a dime a dozen. Getting to know a chick and then ****ing her, unless the getting to know her is ruse, usually leads to something more than a "one night stand", getting to know her after you two banged (and NOT before) rarely seems to amount to much (except for a glorified fvck buddy).....IME.
Noted, and agreed in part.

Even with hard sex escalation, ONSs don't happen the majority of the time. My operandi is sexual escalation first; deeper rapport second. However, I agree insofar as with some girls, this stratagem can backfire; while with others, yours can be crippling.

Being fluid in accordance with the targets' needs is best policy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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