Couple months ago, I've found this site and I've try to be better with women. I was never to much successful with women in HS and now it's still the same in university. I over-think way too much and worry that I can't find a woman to be with. It's been months since I broke up with my ex and I just can't get the ball rolling. It's seems that I can't express myself very much and when I do, the women seems to smell for a mile away that I just want to fvck them.
Got couple phone numbers but it's never led to a meeting expect one time. And the chick never answers my phone call (one chick was always telling me there's a possibility that we meet... bs, the other just give me excuses and don't answers my texts, same with another one). Because of this, I've deleted every number of women I had in my phone since I getting tired of hearing the same excuses. I just wanna get laid and since I haven't done that yet with any woman, I feel like it's the only thing missing so I can take up another challenge. I was thinking about paying for it but I think it's just gonna destroy the small amount of self-esteem that I got. My dad is trying to help me but he changes the speech too many times. It's either: You will have fun don't worry about it, You're not doing anything to get chicks, give your numbers to girls, your uncle couldn't pick up girls so you are just like him...
My friends don't help me much because they always ending up with some chick and I'm just at the side when we hangout wondering why did I go out. I'm trying to have fun with chicks but they just don't wanna do. It's like they don't even try to hook me up or something, yet they are always the ones telling me about some chicks they meet, what they did and all that sh*t. I've try going out alone today, but I didn't get anything. There's was some chicks looking at me but they were either too fat or too old.
I've been going out every single week (at least one time) for the past 2 and a half months without any results. I think I should try to go out alone more often or simply stop trying for a while. Only moment I feel good about those 2 months and a half was today when I was way too busy to think about my situations with girls.
Any thoughts ?
Got couple phone numbers but it's never led to a meeting expect one time. And the chick never answers my phone call (one chick was always telling me there's a possibility that we meet... bs, the other just give me excuses and don't answers my texts, same with another one). Because of this, I've deleted every number of women I had in my phone since I getting tired of hearing the same excuses. I just wanna get laid and since I haven't done that yet with any woman, I feel like it's the only thing missing so I can take up another challenge. I was thinking about paying for it but I think it's just gonna destroy the small amount of self-esteem that I got. My dad is trying to help me but he changes the speech too many times. It's either: You will have fun don't worry about it, You're not doing anything to get chicks, give your numbers to girls, your uncle couldn't pick up girls so you are just like him...
My friends don't help me much because they always ending up with some chick and I'm just at the side when we hangout wondering why did I go out. I'm trying to have fun with chicks but they just don't wanna do. It's like they don't even try to hook me up or something, yet they are always the ones telling me about some chicks they meet, what they did and all that sh*t. I've try going out alone today, but I didn't get anything. There's was some chicks looking at me but they were either too fat or too old.
I've been going out every single week (at least one time) for the past 2 and a half months without any results. I think I should try to go out alone more often or simply stop trying for a while. Only moment I feel good about those 2 months and a half was today when I was way too busy to think about my situations with girls.
Any thoughts ?
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