Struggling with flirting

[thunder_god]

I now have access to somewhat of an abundance of women since I go out and actually do $hit and meet people compared to before, however one of my main problems is being flirtatious. I guess I wasn't really taught how to be flirtatious with women. Don't get me wrong, I can go up to a girl and tell her she's cute or adorable but that would be the extent of my flirting skills. I can also tease the hell out of girls as well, but struggle to make it very sexual.

I'm at the point now where I'm worried that I'm losing out on many prospects because I'm not making the distinction between lover and friend by not flirting.

 

[Tictac]

Flirting is just kidding around with women, throwing in a bit of sexual undertone and maybe a touch on her arm.

It is not rocket science.

 

[stevo]

I'm like the very opposite. It's like I cant stop flirting, such a disease. You've got the right mindset!

Flirting is saying whatever but with the attitude of ''I want to fcuk you''. It's more body language than words. How you act, where your eyes go and what your hands are doing.

If you score the attitude then you can make your words follow suit. The goal is make her think seks even if she's holding a spoon or simply just smiling. Relate whatever to seks but for it to work perfectly you have to build some rapport with the girl.

Believe me any girl you touch knows you aint trying to be friends. Compliment her body (they love da sheet), stare at it, look her in the eyes then stare at it again. Talk Seks!

 

[3agle 3yes]

I've found this is a problem with many men.

Here's a definition if it helps:

1. behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions.

Why would a man behave in such a way without serious intentions?

Because he wants to know wether she is a woman or not, men are attracted to women not girls.

The best way to describe it is behave as if you know she is physically attractive, but you want to find out wether she is a woman or a little girl.

One thing men don't do enough is screen women, as flirting is essentially screening. Screen ALL women you find physically attractive, it raises your value in their eyes because it gives them the impression you have options.

Invade her personal space (both physically and psychologically) and wait for a reaction...make fun of the way she behaves, remark about how "cute" she looks (rather than how sexy), question whether she's trying to hit on you and in general don't take her too seriously.

Many women react negatively when you do this, however, you must NOT react yourself, again, don't take her too seriously.

Think of it from her perspective, if you hear or experience the same thing time and time again, you take notice when someone is different.

 

[Eph]

Flirting is just kidding around with women, throwing in a bit of sexual undertone and maybe a touch on her arm.

It is not rocket science.

Best description of flirting. I'm sure you flirt well much more than you realize.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Ya I wonder where and how most guys learn how to flirt

 

[Krueg]

Flirting is for women... Only way a man flirts is by introducing himself and asking for her number! Women use kino and ect to let you know they like you because they are too shy to ask!