Struggling to figure out what to do

[jsally]

I am currently in a health and fitness program and I met this girl, and up until a month ago she was in a relationship. I purposely set out to keep my distance from day one in order to avoid being friendzoned. Lately I have been flirting bluntly, and I am struggling to tell if she is interested or not. She recently asked for my number, and texted me immediately so I could save hers.

The thing is her taste is more in the badass look, where I am more of a casual look, so that may be a sign. She always talks about shaved heads and tatted guys and how hot they are, which I am neither.

Should I do anything or wait until next class?

Thanks

 

[hockeyfreak79]

She asked for your #, GET SUM! 100% of the time a broad has given me her number I have gotten some action. Is this the first girl that has given you her number?

Woman have options all the time dude, she just added you to her stable. She looking for more attention since she's out of a relationship.

As far as her badass type, it's probably what she has had in her past. Woman like the thought of controlling a badass, they don't put her on a pedestal or kiss her ass. Don't analyze what she says her type is, waste of time really.

Stop trying to figure out what to do and just take action. Confidence man, step up your game read some of the DJ bible.

 

[jsally]

Thanks, do you think its best to wait for next week and talk in person or act now?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Thanks, do you think its best to wait for next week and talk in person or act now?

I don't know enough details dude. Spin plates man, don't get onetits over 1 chick. Girls get chased by guys all the time, be different let her chase you.

If you mean act now by contacting her today, if she's hot she more than likely already has weekend plans. Broads with options make plans in advance. good luck dude

 

[muhnkee]

The big thing I'd say is be slow offering any commitment, affection, anything. Never buy her ANYTHING ever. Chicks that dig the badass type never really want to let it go. Parse out anything of real emotional value sparingly at best. Flirt with every piece of ass that walks past and laugh at her if she complains.

 

[VladPatton]

Forget about what she says. Forget about if she flirts with you daily for 3 hrs in a row. And by all means, disregard what she says about other guys. Maintain your frame on all fronts. You are you, and that is it. To answer your question if she likes you or not:

Always assume she does, until she:

1]explicitly expresses otherwise
2] Refuses to date you

So, all you do at this point is to ask her out. If she says yes, she's diggin ya. Start cheap, spend some time with her, get physical, kiss her, etc, and see where nature takes you. If she says no, go back to saying hello and resume your life. That's it.

 

[jsally]

Thanks guys, should I bother to contact her at all by phone, or wait til next week in person?

 

[Tictac]

Stop making this so hard!

Call her up and ask her out.

This is not rocket science.