Struggling to Cold Approach?

[SmooveMooves]

What it dooooo?

Social Circle game is really where its at for me right now. Daily, Im in constant vicinity of hot chicks and all I have to do is look pretty and charm them a bit before they want to hop on the Smoove Train Express.

Seriously, if your in a drought, getting alot of rejections, can't shake a funk, try to focus more on Social Circle game.

Now you may say "My Social Circle is Small, its pointless."

Well, thats when you expand my friend, make new friends, hang with your buddies (more) cause' any hot chicks they know, You should Know.

The more people you know, the more chicks you possibly know, the more chicks you possibly know, the more likely it is some of those chicks will want to fvck you, plus no hassle from having to approach them cause you already know them.


Now I'm not saying dismiss cold approaching, but combine them.

Have a big ass social circle full of dudes you like and hot chicks alike, and have a harem of girls that you picked up weekly.

I might be wrong but it seems people here mostly focus on Cold Approaching which is cool but I recently found I've been getting easy lays from my social circle and a decent amount due of them due to its size and the continuous growth of it.

This advice might be more helpful to Extroverts not sure how you Introverts feel about this.

Thoughts?

Peace.

 

[skinnyguy]

Cold approach has gotten me laid exactly 0 times. It's creepy.

Meanwhile, I get puss through social circle because I'm validated by friends. I don't have that many in the bay which is the problem. I'm trying to build it up but it's hard when you have to work for a living.

The biggest thing for me is girls seeing that I'm legit. When I'm at a club, I don't get anything cause I'm not ripped. But if those girls at the club saw me in my social element, they'd be eating out of my hands.

Cold approach can make you jaded and negative quite quickly. I don't recommend it to guys who are average looking.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I'm not dismissing cold approaching.

Pick up game and Social Circle game both have their pros and cons

Combine them and maximize efficiency.

 

[Mr Wright]

Cold approach is a skill which I think you always need in your arsenal. Once you know you can approach 15 girls and get a few solid leads, your sex life will benefit because you don't have that "where's my next meal coming from" look in your eyes.

I've gotten laid off of cold approach but I'm going to develop my life so that I have a good social circle where women are consistently coming in and out of it. That's where I want to be because it's easier to get laid, you have to go through less crap to get hotter girls and it's not now or never(which occasionally work in your favour.)

Too many guys think you need 100% game or pure game to be having a good sex life. That's such a fallacy, you can get a few hot female friends and shag their mates with very little game at all. The reason why so many guys are against it is because it means you have to be friends with girls and they have poor social skills to maintain a friendship with a girl. You won't find a guy with poor social skills having female friends, they don't know how to handle it because the truth is you don't need social skills to get laid from cold approach. The other reason is that they're afraid of screwing up and facing the ridicule. You're a man, you want to have sex with beautiful women, if anyone tries to shame you, unapologetically remind them of that.

Most of the girls I talk to are from my extended social circle(friend of a friend sort of deal) and I talk to my closer female friends about it occasionally but on the most part they aren't actually that bothered that you're seeing their friend.