“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bingo-Player

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Most of my male friends either lack the emotional maturity to connect with women beyond basic physical attraction or are way too needy

I have a LTR atm but previously I would be guilty of placing way way too much expectation on women I barely knew ,

Getting sexual too quickly was also a problem I now realise that women have a very good radar for how much a guy wants / needs sex if she detects that in you she can start playing games because she knows your hooked
 

Chow Mein

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Most of my male friends either lack the emotional maturity to connect with women beyond basic physical attraction or are way too needy

I have a LTR atm but previously I would be guilty of placing way way too much expectation on women I barely knew ,

Getting sexual too quickly was also a problem I now realise that women have a very good radar for how much a guy wants / needs sex if she detects that in you she can start playing games because she knows your hooked
Agreed.
@Bingo-Player, you see that play and reverse-Uno.
You make intimacy their idea :)
 

Clockwerk50

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I wouldn’t say there are many, but the biggest shortcomings I’ve seen are guys being too relationship-focused—thinking they have to act like a boyfriend just to get to the fun stage.

One mistake I was guilty of myself was setting the bar too high. I let a lot of women go because I only wanted the ones everyone else wanted—the social butterflies. I still kick myself for that sometimes, but nowadays I tend to give women what they’re looking for.

Right now, I don’t see many issues in my circle, but I’d say some can become shy or too outcome-dependent. There’s also the fact that some have little sense of style or can be very sloppy.
 
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