"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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derWichtigste

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I see here, some people wantnew forums...

I proposed a new structure awhile back, and it is no longer listed here.
So, I will say it again.

AFC to DJ (Skills needed to change)
Getting the girl
********
Skills
STRs
Keeping the girl
LTRs

General questions for advice

It is just too hard to look through everything for sth that one needs right now.

At least, I think there should be one forum just for asking for advice.
And one forum for existing knowledge/experiences/Tips

This will weed out all the AFC questions, and if you want to help people, you can go there, if you need info, you can go to the other one.

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If you do not control the way how you think, someone else will!

(my view on life, and finally found it in words in one of Pooks posts)

Ich bin vielleicht nicht der Beste, aber ich bin doch besser als die Reste
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oh, oh...

and a forum (or sth) JUST for ********.

Let Wydfile do that, or Rebel...
That would be ideal, and then let Pook mederate it, to keep them in control.

THAT would be the best.

seriously though, ******** is a very important issue here.
like a new foreign language.

Damn, come to think about it, that would make Wyldfile and Rebel useful here.
(not that you are not already).

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If you do not control the way how you think, someone else will!

(my view on life, and finally found it in words in one of Pooks posts)

Ich bin vielleicht nicht der Beste, aber ich bin doch besser als die Reste
 

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you cant rely on a woman to decode ********, obviously the women here are great and intelligent but they arent the backbones ,but they are alot of fun.

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"If you overdo Anything with a girl, you are mostlikely an AFC" Laskoe
 

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They can at least confirm it.

The ones that are here, and have stayed here know what language they speak, and can "translate".

I dont listen to the other "spys".

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If you do not control the way how you think, someone else will!
(my view on life, and finally found it in words in one of Pooks posts)

Ich bin vielleicht nicht der Beste, aber ich bin doch besser als die Reste
I am maybe not the best, but I am better than the rest!
 
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